Posts by truthseekeriam

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Lady Lee- who are you, and what's YOUR story?
by theMadJW in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
since they have fingered you as a mod, you should have a very interesting tale to tell; please do!.
truthseekeriam

Hi Quillsky,
Did you read all of this before posting that? http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/members/private/114941/1/Healing-Words-a-Biography-the-index
Somehow I don't think so..
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ex-elders, present elders, and sexual abuse survivors or their families
by Lady Lee in
1. watchtower
2. child-abuse
help needed on this thread.

lady lee- who are you, and what's your story?.

madjw thinks the wts' policy is sufficient to deal wtih cases of sexual abuse of children.
truthseekeriam

I'm very angry for that attack on your character LL. I feel just sick that people have to try and hurt another personally just to try to get them to shut up about this subject. I know it's something they wish we wouldn't talk about, but to go to the lengthens they do to try to keep you quite..it makes you wonder what they have to hide or what makes them feel less then when you or others bring it up? It has to be something.
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ex-elders, present elders, and sexual abuse survivors or their families
by Lady Lee in
1. watchtower
2. child-abuse
help needed on this thread.

lady lee- who are you, and what's your story?.

madjw thinks the wts' policy is sufficient to deal wtih cases of sexual abuse of children.
truthseekeriam

Wrong way is dead wrong!
Elders investigate it just as strongly as the police, only without the experience! They further damage victims and could damage their case against the abuser by telling the abuser every detail of the allegation against him. That's a Dream for a defense attorney to know way in advance how to go at the little victims in court.
Victims should not even waste their time going to the elders IMO they should go to the police and make a report once the district attorney decides to take it to trial it's a open record. Time for the family to warn everyone in the congregation and neighboring KH's because the creep most likely has moved on to another hall while he awaits trial. When the DA clears it then go to the elders, they most likely will already know but only give then the simple facts and never allow them to question your child..that should be left to the trained professionals.
Please learn from my mistakes...
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Lady Lee- who are you, and what's YOUR story?
by theMadJW in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
since they have fingered you as a mod, you should have a very interesting tale to tell; please do!.
truthseekeriam

Great advice LL.
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Lady Lee- who are you, and what's YOUR story?
by theMadJW in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
since they have fingered you as a mod, you should have a very interesting tale to tell; please do!.
truthseekeriam

Mad JW,
Your right her having to sit there and face her abuser and a jerk of a defense attorney was hellfire..but the result was seeing her molester handcuffed and lead away Knowing she helped in making sure he wasn't going to harm another child.
What she went through with the elders was also hellfire..but the results were waiting and waiting almost 4 years before he was even d'fd and for what? I'm not sure we heard it through the grapevine and verified it recently.
Imagine being a parent and telling your child if you just tell the elders the truth you will help make sure he never hurts any of you friends in the KH and nothing happening. Imagine running to the phone knowing this is the day they are going to tell you he was being disfellowshipped and it never coming.
We went through a trial and we all know how long of a process that is and still heard nothing. I mean it's not like he hadn't molested other children, he was on reproof for admitting to molesting 2 others when my child spoke up..that's 3 witnesses alone.
Look, I know your an honest person. You feel what you feel. Only question is... could you be wrong?
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Lady Lee- who are you, and what's YOUR story?
by theMadJW in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
since they have fingered you as a mod, you should have a very interesting tale to tell; please do!.
truthseekeriam

Brotherdan..
You have no idea, we sat like a couple of zombies letting it happen!! That's the one thing I will always have guilt over. I should have never allowed it, I just didn't know
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Lady Lee- who are you, and what's YOUR story?
by theMadJW in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
since they have fingered you as a mod, you should have a very interesting tale to tell; please do!.
truthseekeriam

My child was molested after this policy change...
We were still made to feel as we did something wrong by calling the autorities before the elders. Not verbally, but how we were treated.
We heard the phrase "reproach on Jehovah's name" over and over agian along with "this is bad". We really felt almost guilty after the elders left our home.. well, really confused.. My child was questioned horriably for almost 2 hours and not one of those elders told us we could have just given them the story Dont they relize the damage they can do?? Do they care?
It was a night I will never forget. They actually told us the molester had the just as much right as his victim to me in the KH?? How was that protecting the victim from further abuse as the NEW policy states? Of course we didn't allow her in the same room with the creep ever again until she had to face him in court.
No Love..
No support..
No compassion..
So unlike Christ Jesus.
I pray for those going through it right now, because I know they're out there.
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Going on Vacation in about an hour!
by JWoods in
1. jw
2. friends
we are going up to the cabin in colorado at noon today - first time we have gone in the fall.. will be back in two weeks - see you then.. james and mai.
truthseekeriam

Colorado is beautiful!! Enjoy :)
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crying at my grandma's house
by lil.lady.03 in
1. jw
2. experiences
i don't know why i'm telling you all this, but i broke down in tears today.. .

i went to my grandma and grandpa's today just to visit.. most of my early memories are being with my grandma out in service while my mom was off to work.. .

i looked at her today.
truthseekeriam

I'm glad you found this forum,
You'll find at least a dozen or more that can understand what your feeling...for some reason just talking about it really helps
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JW Ministerial Servant sentence to 14 years for child porn
by lavozsa in
1. watchtower
2. child-abuse
my wife grew up with this family in her congregation so she was very familiar with them all.

the person in the story that was sentenced was born into the "truth" and was a ministerial servant at the time of his arrest.

his mother was a regular pioneer, father an elder and sister also a pioneer.
truthseekeriam

Yuk!! Makes my tummy hurt just knowing creeps like this are out there
"Garcia’s vehicle and found an external hard drive which a forensic analysis found contained 400 images and 17 videos of child pornography of prepubescent children, some less than a year old"