Welcome Poppycat.
1. Please use paragraph breaks.
2. You are wrong in much of what you have written. Most JW's will obey GB direction over what they themselves feel the bible says because they believe the GB are appointed by Jehovah/Jesus to do the interpretation for them.
Further, in child abuse cases the GB have not given new directives to elders that the police/authorities are to be involved and that the paedo must be disfellowshipped - if you have been told this it is from someone who is engaged in wishful thinking or who is trying to mislead you.
Yet further, if you are only getting your information from those who have studied with you then you are about as clued up on real behind the scene JW practices as I am about Catholic ones. You need to get your information from several sources to see what has the ring of truth.
3. I'm sorry to hear of your abuse. The way the Catholic hierarchy acted is the same as JW's isn't it? I believe neither organisation has the backing of any god I wish to serve.
4. There are indeed some very kind, intelligent and deep JW's - but if any one of them were to say amongst their fellow JW's and stick to the view that the GB is not the true channel of God or that JW predictions surrounding 1914 are false or that the 144,000 is definitely not a literal number then they would be disfellowshipped. They can say it to you because you will not "report" them.
Nice to hear from you.