Thanks for the comments,
What I failed to mention, is that this paradigm shift works on two sides this time.
Reading the toppics here, i feel that I don't care about old and new scandals and untruths anymore.
Attending the Kingdom Hall, i feel that it's all Spanish to me.
Having lost the attachment to the toppics, I feel i'm having more focus on people. JW and non JW. Human interest.
And that's why I wrote that i'm surrounded by good people now.
Hope you get what I mean due to the language gap between Dutch and English.
Gorby