I am pretty good at sniffing out urban legends and chain mail. I check to see if they advise you to BOMBARD (the victim) with E-MAILS and MAKE A DIFFERENCE, or promise that GREAT WEALTH AND BLESSINGS are on their way if you just spread this unsubstantiated rumor to ten of your friends. And if you do not, GREAT DISASTERS are on their way.
Some joker thought it would be fun to post an ad in our local paper that the first Sasquatch had been found and would be on display at WinterFest. My office buddy was furious when she found out it was a hoax. I figured, hey, if it was real, we would have seen a lot more than a quarter page ad in the paper.
On the morning of September 11, I said NO WAY, and went sniffing out the news wires on the internet. I am not sorry that I remained skeptical until I had secondary confirmation. My very next act was to phone my daughter and tell her "Something terrible has just happened."
When reading articles here, ask what the poster might gain from providing that information. Most times, nothing except a sympathetic ear. I have no reason to doubt them. A lot of the factual information can be checked. Sometimes I do go and double-check.
By the way, I am always very cautious when I see only one side of a personal dispute. There is always two sides to a story.