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  Do nice people who leave the truth have more friends?

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  hi posters.

  something has really been bothering me a lot lately.

  in a nutshell i faded about 4 years ago.

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  wouldacouldashoulda

  bluecanary
  
  I have those comments too. But evensome of those have nieghbours or a friend at work. Maybe we shd carry out a vote of the next 10 comments or so?
  
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  Do nice people who leave the truth have more friends?

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  hi posters.

  something has really been bothering me a lot lately.

  in a nutshell i faded about 4 years ago.

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  wouldacouldashoulda

  Hi Posters
  
  Something has really been bothering me a lot lately.
  
  In a nutshell I faded about 4 years ago. The cong I faded from was not my home congregation and did not know me very well. I had two shepherding calls to save me life within weeks and nothing more (I consider myself luckier than some to get that.)
  
  One of my best friends a well respected elder contacted me after I left. After telling him I would not return he said this meal would be the last time I would ever see him again.
  
  My most intimate friends stopped returning calls and made it clear that past friendships counted for nothing. I hate to bore you all but really needed to vent. So let me get to my point. I have read 100s if not 1000s of posts and many of you say that you managed to keep in touch with people despite being disfellowshipped or disassociated. Was that because you were such good friends before? Maybe you were just a nicer person?
  
  My life is so lonely now despite socialising thru www.meetup.com every week I have nobody's name to use in case of a medical emergency.
  
  ANY comments will be appreciated.
  
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  Does marriage work

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  hi posters.

  in the uk 50% of marriages fail.

  maybe around half of those who stay married are not really that happy.. .

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  All you happy marriage posters make me sick (in the nicest way possible)
  
  I have never met so many happy 25%ers!
  
  Excepions to the rule only serve to make my statement true.
  
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  Does marriage work

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  hi posters.

  in the uk 50% of marriages fail.

  maybe around half of those who stay married are not really that happy.. .

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  wouldacouldashoulda

  Hi posters
  
  In the UK 50% of marriages fail. Maybe around half of those who stay married are not really that happy.
  
  With a 75% failure rate does getting married make sense?
  
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  Who Am I?

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  about a year ago i stopped posting and now i am back.. .

  can you remember who i was?.

  i will answer any question about my identify with a yes or no.. .

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  wouldacouldashoulda

  I am mtsgrad and I am back.
  
  Snowbird nailing me? No comment.
  
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  Who Am I?

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  about a year ago i stopped posting and now i am back.. .

  can you remember who i was?.

  i will answer any question about my identify with a yes or no.. .

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  wouldacouldashoulda

  My account was limited becasue of breaking rules.
  
  I was married twice on JWD.
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  Who Am I?

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  about a year ago i stopped posting and now i am back.. .

  can you remember who i was?.

  i will answer any question about my identify with a yes or no.. .

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  wouldacouldashoulda

  Ok I will give a clue. My last picture was feline.
  
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  Who Am I?

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  about a year ago i stopped posting and now i am back.. .

  can you remember who i was?.

  i will answer any question about my identify with a yes or no.. .

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  wouldacouldashoulda

  do you love Jerkhoobah and his Earthly slave, and all the spiritual food he feeds us with?
  
  I am allowed to say hell NO?
  
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  Who Am I?

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  about a year ago i stopped posting and now i am back.. .

  can you remember who i was?.

  i will answer any question about my identify with a yes or no.. .

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  wouldacouldashoulda

  24601 is not me.
  
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  Who Am I?

  by wouldacouldashoulda in

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  about a year ago i stopped posting and now i am back.. .

  can you remember who i was?.

  i will answer any question about my identify with a yes or no.. .

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  wouldacouldashoulda

  Are you bigger than a 'bread box'? YES

  Do you have buttons? My clothes do.
  
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