This really happened to me. It is awful and painful and a heartbreak. It's so sad.
jwliedtome2
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My ex Boyfriend didn't tell me he was a Jehovah's witness until...
by arshia insix months ago i had never heard about jehovah's witnesses.
i was at the chinese buffet by my self.
he came to me and asked why i was alone and how can a girl like me not have a partner.
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My ex Boyfriend didn't tell me he was a Jehovah's witness until...
by arshia insix months ago i had never heard about jehovah's witnesses.
i was at the chinese buffet by my self.
he came to me and asked why i was alone and how can a girl like me not have a partner.
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jwliedtome2
Having read alot about JW this week, I believe the whole cult supports men in being patriarchal assholes who won't get caught or ever take responsibility for their actions. I think in my case my bf was a coward and an asshole. I very much feel sorry for women who are in the cult, or get caught up in it by the evil of the men who take them to this hell.
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My ex Boyfriend didn't tell me he was a Jehovah's witness until...
by arshia insix months ago i had never heard about jehovah's witnesses.
i was at the chinese buffet by my self.
he came to me and asked why i was alone and how can a girl like me not have a partner.
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jwliedtome2
Also, I do not believe it is because he is a JW really. I just think he made poor choices. And he will continue to do so in my opinion because he can get away with it. His judgement is not in my hands thank goodness!
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My ex Boyfriend didn't tell me he was a Jehovah's witness until...
by arshia insix months ago i had never heard about jehovah's witnesses.
i was at the chinese buffet by my self.
he came to me and asked why i was alone and how can a girl like me not have a partner.
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jwliedtome2
I had the same thing happen to me this week! A JW and I dated. I asked him from the beginning if he was married. I asked him a total of 3 times. He said no he had been divorced 10 years. I asked him what religion he was and he told me he did not really practice any religion. Well turns out he is a baptized Jehovah Witness and has been married for 17 years. He lied on all fronts. Told me I was the only true love of his live. I thought we were going to get married. Seriously? How could I have been so far off. This was my first relationship in 5 years.
Well here are my thoughts. At first I was heartbroken. Now I'm just angry which is better feeling than heartbroken. He is living his life in an entire lie. He lied to me, to his family, to his religion, to his daughter. He's out of integrity. I would have never dated him had I known any of that. But I wasn't given a choice in the matter. Now knowing I have a choice and I say no way. He took me right into his self created hell. But he cannot have my integrity too.
My only wish is that his wife would know so if she wanted to go on with her life with out any shame she could. She'd be free to leave and be happy because he says she is miserable. It's all up to them from now on. I'm gone. I guess their rules don't really work.