It is a sad and horrible bait-and-switch.
People longing for community end up in a cult.
People longing for spirituality end up in religion.
The truth is we don't need religion for community and spirituality. Religion actually undermines genuine community, faith and spirituality - albeit in varying degrees depending of the level of religiosity.
There seems to be some good news though.
An emergent believer movement has been quietly sweeping through the Jewish, Christian and Muslim world.
Progressive people who are increasingly done with institutions, dogma, rules, tradition and division (aka religion).
Sample google search 1: emergent judaism
Sample google search 2: emerging church