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  JWs + Chronic Illness

  by Cimarrona in

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  i once asked my dad why, with all the power the wt insists on having so much control over its adherents' lives, they don't provide information about healthy eating habits or, like the adventists, wilderness training.

  i mean, the gb encourage people to remain poor, and poverty is known to correlate with health outcomes, particularly those that are diet related.

  i'd say most witnesses i knew over the age of 40 were overweight, had high blood pressure, heart problems, gastrointestinal issues, one kind of cancer or another (no doubt a result of eating their feelings if you ask me).

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  Too invasive??!!!

  But a million rules about entertainment, grooming, hair length, marriage, sex, friendships, education, family relations, dating, clothing, jobs acceptable....etc etc are not at all invasive!

  By the way cimarrona I read your bio:

  academic work around literature and visual art of the African diaspora).

  Sounds really interesting! Do you have a blog? I've always wanted to study this area. I'm a waspy British girl but I've always felt the African diaspora has contributed to the creative arts in a yuuuuge way and for centuries other cultures have plagerized their ideas; often without financial recompense or honestly crediting their influence/referencing their work. I believe that's why many of the biggest modern stars seem to be money focused; they are long due recompense. What do you think?
  
  
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  If alcohol was a DF offense

  by James Mixon in

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  i guess the question which is the hardest to give up smoking or alcohol.

  many folks gave up smoking in the 70's including me but i have known some hard drinking brothers and if consuming any kind of alcohol became a df offense, i wonder.....

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  I worked in a rehab and had quite a few elders as patients.
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  If alcohol was a DF offense

  by James Mixon in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i guess the question which is the hardest to give up smoking or alcohol.

  many folks gave up smoking in the 70's including me but i have known some hard drinking brothers and if consuming any kind of alcohol became a df offense, i wonder.....

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  James That's one favour the Witnesses did do for you....getting you to give up smoking. I'm glad for that😀
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  Bank and ATM's..

  by zeb in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i went to the atm to get out my housekeeping and budgeting money.

  ($650) this covers large bills and everyday shopping for food etc.. made the withdrawal and as i fumbled my wallet the atm took the money back.

  a bank staff member was present helping another customer with the other atm and saw this.

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  Hi there Zeb sorry this happened to you....it's called a " purge" in the UK and has happened to me 3 times! It was the same ATM at a Barclays bank branch and only on one occasion did I "fumble"( or rarther my kids did). Fortunately it was only £20 each time. The one time I was using that particular banks debit card( Barclays) I received the money back.

  But on two occasions I was using another banks debit card ( Santander) and I didn't receive the money back. I hope you get it back asap.

  As if they're not rich enough already!!!
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  Excellent YouTube channel

  by Are you serious in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  a few days ago, thanks to someone's post on here (sorry i forgot who it was), i found an awesome youtube channel called theramintrees.

  the videos this guy has made are amazing!

  i'm sure others here have seen some of his videos.

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  Yea the voice is somewhat strange but the information, though he applied it to all religions, really hits home when it comes to the indoctrination one receives as a jw.

  That's because the chap behind theramin trees is an exjw and fully qualified psychologist with expertise in philosophy .

  And no, his voice and presentation is neither creepy or strange but professional and entirely fitting considering the sinister subject matter.

  I highly recommend his brother Qualia soup.
  
  
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  Avatar image or whatever it is called

  by amicabl in

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  2. friends

  could someone please tell me why my image is either sideways or upside down.

  i feel an utter fool asking this question but i can't find any help anywhere.

  sorry..

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  Amicable I totally think you should keep the photo as is....it's kinda like your " thing" now, really cute since your aussi.

  Keep it!!
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  Shunning revered?

  by new boy in

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  2. friends

  in 1974 the society had changed there stance on shunning dis-fellowshipping people.

  they said you could have limited association with those who were dis-fellowshipped.. what year did they change it back to the old way of shunning people?

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  I remember, as a young child, being told that for family members it was "spiritual association' only that was forbidden. That was mid to late seventies. They started tightening up around 81 for sure because shunning was extended to DA people at that point.
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  so its discussions with people..

  by zeb in

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  so the wt mag is all but gone just a few a year.

  thus a big gap in the sunday program?

  no more year books.

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  With information now reduced to almost cut-off then the parochial "I think", "I heard the other day" "We assume.." will now rife forth with ever more embellishments until the wt 'message' is not recognisable.

  Darn good point. Won't Watchtower loose more control?

  I wonder if the time will come when only special, selected "kingdom preachers" will be set loose on an unsuspecting world?!!
  
  
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  Grounds for divorce and other questions

  by new boy in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  doing research for my book.

  since i no longer have any of of the watchtower bible and truck society publications.

  1. was it true (and believe it was) that in the nineteen sixties that even if one of the marriage mates was a homosexual that this was not concerned grounds for divorce?.

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  Physical abuse is grounds for *seperation*....not divorce.

  The infamous line considered extreme physical abuse and spiritual endangerment in the same sentence....intimating apostacy is to be likened to domestic violence, but that in either case neither partner is scripurally free to marry . It then went on to quote the Bible as saying "if a man marries a divorced women he makes her an adultress" or similar wording.

  I'm sorry I don't know the exact Watchtower it's quoted from, but it's fairly recent. I'm sure can be found on JW.org or Avoidjw.org.
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  My Invisible (cat)

  by TerryWalstrom in

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  2. friends

  my invisible (cat) .

  when i was a little boy all the way up to when i was a not-so-little boy, i had sort of ...well--an invisible cat as a friend.. .

  i'll let you adjust to that thought before i continue.... .

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  stuckinarut222 minutes ago

  I too speak fluent "cat".... 😻😺

  Me too, but I'm a beginner. I was hoping my relatively fluent DOG would help me, but apparently they are totally unrelated. Either that or my DOG is mighty rusty.

  
  ps. Sometimes my cat uses mighty bad language - and swears like a trooper. We invited another cat for tea the other day and it was really quite shocking ....is this common for cats or has mine absolutely no manners?