You can be mentally in (and think itβs the true religion) and still celebrate birthdays. Itβs part of what makes POMIs particularly annoying.
I agree. This is also a good way of 'celebrating, but not celebrating', allowing friends and family to do something nice for her, whilst not directly benefitting her.
From what I can gather it seems Lloyds family were willing to continue their relationship if he didn't disassociate (for his father in particular), and for his sister if he discontinued his very public activism.
There are ways to take down The Tower behind the scenes, without your face being front and centre. I take it 'producer Bob' is one such person. If it were me I'd take that route so I could maintain contact with my family, for the sake of my kids.
But I guess that route isn't financially rewarding.