Well bully for you looloo! I think you exercised great restraint in your conversation as you've described it. I know when I was still going duh-to-DUH these kinds of interactions were quite disturbing as I knew on some level the stories had to be true. You did those ladies a favor in being honest with them but not bitter (at least it seemed so in your telling). My son was molested by the son of an elder, who had himself been molested by one of our Ministerial Serpents who was also a Regular Pioneer. We were threatened with expulsion if we reported it, and were subsequently "iced out" in the congregation by the elder whose son was the molester, as a pre-emptive strike I suppose. In a small town we felt it every day and round the clock. And yet we faithfully attended all the meetings, made rosy comments that were expected, did our dooring and tried to swallow our outrage, shock and pain. I can't even think of how my son interpreted our ongoing, albeit forced, association with these ASSHOLES. At any rate, it's ancient history by now, but you are certainly correct (IMHO) in your assertion that it is rampant in that organization and has been for a looooong time (back to Rutherford and others in fact).
Good show, looloo!
Steve in S. California, US