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  Flat Earth Jw and Galileo Galilei

  by Earthmeasured in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  in the image you can see what jw wrote about how galileo was treated by the catholic church.

  now they are disfelloshipping me because i believe the earth is flat.

  is this coherent?.

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  cofty

  It does indeed say the earth is flat. Yet another example of why it is silly to organise your life around the ramblings of Iron Age goat herders.

  Join us in the 21st century.
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  Flat Earth Jw and Galileo Galilei

  by Earthmeasured in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  in the image you can see what jw wrote about how galileo was treated by the catholic church.

  now they are disfelloshipping me because i believe the earth is flat.

  is this coherent?.

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  cofty

  JWs believe some of the most stupid ideas ever invented but even they have their limits.

  You are too gullible even to be a JW.
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  An atheist sermon on grace (my second UU* sermon)

  by rawe in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i had a fair bit of fun giving my first ever post-jw religious sermon.

  so i asked rev.

  andy if he would like me to deliver another.

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  cofty

  Thank you for sharing that. I will watch it later.

  IMO it is the subject of 'grace' that separates JWs from the christian faith.
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  I wish all Witness men were like this ...

  by vienne in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  my intro essay for the new book caused all sorts of off blog controversy.

  my writing partner, a retired educator and a witness, responded.

  why aren't more witness men like this?

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  cofty

  That's sexist thinking. It's typical of a certain class of Witness male

  It is indeed. The word 'subjection' is central to their ideas about relationships between men and women. In reality they don't just apply it between husband and wife. I wonder if it takes born-in wives some time to get over that indoctrination. Might be a useful thread?
  
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  I wish all Witness men were like this ...

  by vienne in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  my intro essay for the new book caused all sorts of off blog controversy.

  my writing partner, a retired educator and a witness, responded.

  why aren't more witness men like this?

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  cofty

  I take it your writing partner has been getting some ‘get your woman under control’ emails?

  That is very typical JW behaviour.
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  Is Being a “Manly Man” a Bad Thing?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so much is said regarding men , in a negative way.

  shaving commercials are now lecturing us as to how bad we really are.

  men should be less masculine.

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  cofty

  I find the extreme reactions to some of these issues interesting. Why are some men and some women extreme in their reactions to these issues. - FTS

  I haven't seen any extreme reactions in this thread. I have seen a lot of misrepresentation of what a lot of men ACTUALLY said.
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  Is Being a “Manly Man” a Bad Thing?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
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  so much is said regarding men , in a negative way.

  shaving commercials are now lecturing us as to how bad we really are.

  men should be less masculine.

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  cofty

  FTS - The genetic component in determining our personalities, talents and interests is huge. Of course culture does play a part in shaping our attitudes and beliefs - our personality not so much. Also it is true that a child can be permanently damaged by harmful parenting.

  The good news is that children will pretty much become what they were always going to be as adults as long as parenting is 'good enough'. The trend for excessive parental micromanaging of their offspring is a fool's errand.
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  Is Being a “Manly Man” a Bad Thing?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so much is said regarding men , in a negative way.

  shaving commercials are now lecturing us as to how bad we really are.

  men should be less masculine.

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  cofty

  FTS - The Bear Grylls programme was nothing but light entertainment. Interesting but anecdotal. The evidence that matters is from neuroscience and evolutionary psychology. Babies are not blank slates.
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  Is Being a “Manly Man” a Bad Thing?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so much is said regarding men , in a negative way.

  shaving commercials are now lecturing us as to how bad we really are.

  men should be less masculine.

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  cofty

  TobyJones I agree with you but I would go further.

  Mentally they are really no different

  Boy brains and girl brains differentiate in the womb under the influence of testosterone. Even before they are old enough to be socialised baby boys and girls reliably demonstrate differences in interests and aptitudes. In his book We are our Brains the neuroscientist Dick Swaab describes numerous differences in the architecture of male and female brains.

  When babies are born who with intersex genitalia it used to be believed that doctors could decide the sex and parents raise them accordingly. In 50% of cases this is a disaster for the child. Best practice now observes the child until it can be determined how the brain was sexed and then perform surgery on the genitals.

  What I am NOT saying is that men or women are more intelligent. We are also talking about averages measured over a group which is why individual anecdotes are not useful.
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  what are the craziest or most daming watchtowers ever printed?

  by Tobyjones262 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  so what is your favorite crazy or most damning watchtower?

  i can think of a few but one i went out and bought the bound vol for was the 1984 the generation that will not pass away.

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  cofty

  The time they boasted about all the children they had murdered.