as long as you respect their customs and convictions
I think this is the focus of our difference.
I do not respect theism. I don't respect religious dogma. I don't respect child genital mutilation. I don't respect teaching children to believe they have original sin.
I do respect people's right believe things that are objectively false.
I don't like deabting [sic] on the Internet
I suspect you do. You just don't like people answering you back.