Thanks OTWO.....and for the definition. Its just that when that term is used on here it it used as if 'a trap' to get people in to some sinister organisation..(which may of you I'm sure concur) I don't.
I didn't feel that, and I don't feel anything sinister. These were loving people who I remember growing up and many I don't. I think I was recognised as probably a lost sheep from 30 years ago, but they were genuine, and they were loving. Even if I am not about to return to the fold. I do recognise fakes.