I was baptized when I was 13. Like you, I was raised a JW, I was under pressure. My Dad was Presiding Overseer (don't know if they still call them that) and my freinds who just became JW's were taking the plunge. I will not be out done... I'm doin' it!
Geez what a mistake that was! Now I go to my family reunions and my Mom, Dad, Brothers and sisters don't say a word to me. They will sit and laugh and have a good time with one of my cousins who got away from it all though. If you take the plunge and leave that religion, you are treated totally different than those who didn't take the plunge and left. Oh well... it turns out to be their loss, not mine.