Hi Kate no prob's.
I'm in my late 50's, so many men I know grew up when it was quite dangerous to be identified as a gay man & did all they could to hide the fact they were homosexual.
One way to alleviate any suspicion was by getting married & yes somehow children came along.
Personally I can't identify with even the possibility of being intimate with a woman but some of my gay friends have been there.
Usually the marriage fails after the children have grown up & as human society progressed being gay has become easier to deal with though often still quite traumatic for the individuals concerned.
I enjoy your input on this board.
Hoab xx