Like many JWs, he has a blind spot where his religion is concerned, and just can't see how unbalanced and unnatural his viewpoint is.
Thanks for reminding me of this Hmmm.
Sometimes I get the same way with my family, but then I remember that I was just as dumb and frankly even more die-hard when I was a witness.
It's a difficult balance, becuase I do want to hold them responsible for their own actions, but at the same time, i find it hard to hold it against them as long as they are being blinded by the WT. It's just a tough spot to be in and you have my sympathies.