welcome.
lisa
i'm new here, this is my first post.
have been reading so many comments from you guys over the past few months and now i can finally comment too!.
it is amazing how long it took me to see that jw's are not god's organization and that their teachings do not really find support in the bible.. now i'm not really sure what i believe.
welcome.
lisa
heres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
I felt extreme guilt. I even went to the elders and confessed. One of the dumbest things I ever did in my life.
As far as what you should do, it depends on how old you and this girl are. Or are you a 40 year old virgin?
There's no reason why you have to jump into anything. Take it nice and slow.
lisa
i was very disappointed in one of my friends near here.
he is df'd.
he started smoking cigs.
Never smoked cigarettes, cigars or tobacco pipes.
lisa
thanks to beks for the title.. i can't stand being a fatty-fat-fatty anymore.
my son is getting married, allegedly next fall, and i want to look good for the wedding.
and i want to look good for myself.
double post
thanks to beks for the title.. i can't stand being a fatty-fat-fatty anymore.
my son is getting married, allegedly next fall, and i want to look good for the wedding.
and i want to look good for myself.
I'd love to join you. I will be 49 in October and wanted to be a new person by my 50th birthday...So I thought I'd start now.
I'm looking forward to hearing your food/recipe reviews.
lisa
hi, folks.
it's been a while since i've posted here.
i've been trying to figure out a way to live inside my mind.. i'm not going to post my entire history again, but here's the deal.. i am a baptized, card-carrying forty-year-old borg member.
You're playing the lead role in your life. ...there is no dress rehearsal.
lisa
ever since i was a kid, my father would tell me to quit being antisocial.
to me, i was just playing with my favorite best friend in her room after the bookstudy.
i had no desire to sit amongst the bookstudy group and listen to things that didnt interest me.
I love sitting here and hanging with like minded people.
lisa
were you ever marked?.
i'm pretty sure my family was marked.
it was never announced.
I figured it out when I kept raising my hand and wasn't called on. Over and over I kept raising my hand, and not getting called on.
lisa
i have noticed a lot of newbies lately.
(i also noticed that after being absent for a year happy1975 is making a return visit.).
so, if you are a brand spanking newbie, post here and tell us a little about your interests, your state, your new direction in life, your favorite things, whatever you want to say---this is your thread.. .
I come here less and less.
But still check in.
Life is good.
Welcome all the newbies.
*waves to all the oldies
lisa
short review: the elders "invited" me to a friendly chat with 3 elders.
i told them since it's about my official status with jw's i request an official invitation in writing.
they denied it, and went ahead and kept the jc without me, notifying me that i'm df'd and if i want to appeal, send it in writing (btw: .
thanks for the update.
Sounds like you are living life. Good for you. Be happy, take care of yourself and the people you love.
lisa