Posts by laverite

today i went on my instragram and realized that one of the jw "friends" i have on there didn't have any or her wt propaganda, and propaganda i mean pictures of her and all the children (under 10) she is studying with and helping to bring in the truth.

so i looked to see if she was still "following me" nope, so i looked to see if i was still "following her" nope, which means she blocked.

so then i go on to my jw facebook and she is no longer friends with me..... so now i know what you are thinking, she has blocked and unfrieded me because she saw my apostate video...or word finally reached her.....nope!

laverite

Gojira,

You sound like one lucky person. I want a husband with a buzz cut and a goatie. Actually, just a husband even without a goatie or buzz cut would do.

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Magotan's Story

by magotan in

hi all, i've posted here in crisis a few weeks ago.

i recently have finally taken the time to write out my entire story.

i knew i had to come out to my parents and family about everything, my sexuality, and my issues with the jehovah's witnesses.

laverite

I previously read your story, though I think it was a shorter version. Your account is one of someone who has been horribly victimized by the Watchtower. Hopefully, as you grow into adulthood, you will get to the point of becoming empowered enough to truly realize what you've done -- that you had the strength to reject their cult, make your way on your own, pursue your education and build your own life. This is amazingly, wonderfully, empowering. Hopefully the way you think about and tell your story will change significantly as you mature. The narrative, hopefully, will become less of that of victim, and more of that of empowered survivor.

Good luck to you!

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Have your views on gays changed over the years?

by laverite in

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some questions....feel free to answer any or all of these.

have your views of gay people changed over the years?

do you have or have you ever had gay friends?

laverite

Wow, Julia, Smiddy, Gromit, and Tornapart, thanks so much for your comments. They were interesting to read, and what others I have talked to in real life have said. And, Smiddy, there's nothing wrong with feeling repulsed by seeing an exchange on TV. You sound like a really good person, so I would not question that or worry about that at all. It's your reaction and it is what it is. I wish there were more people like you and your wife in the world.

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I have found a girlfriend, but there is something I've been hiding from her

by ronweasley in

all is well and good in my life right now :) with one small catch... i have a secret that i have hidden from my girlfriend.. for the first time since coming out of the borg, i have found romance.

i was lucky to meet a girl called romilda (name has been changed), and we get on like a house in fire.

we have been in a relationship for a few days now, but some of my friends have pointed out that i should be honest with her and be straight about my sexuallity.

laverite

@Anony Mous, I hope none of my comments were seen as disparaging of polyamory or nonmonogamous arrangements. I support what makes people happy, as long as everyone is a consenting adult.

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I have found a girlfriend, but there is something I've been hiding from her

by ronweasley in

all is well and good in my life right now :) with one small catch... i have a secret that i have hidden from my girlfriend.. for the first time since coming out of the borg, i have found romance.

i was lucky to meet a girl called romilda (name has been changed), and we get on like a house in fire.

we have been in a relationship for a few days now, but some of my friends have pointed out that i should be honest with her and be straight about my sexuallity.

laverite

why refer to her as "poor girl?" She may be very lucky to have met him. He could be quite a catch.

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I have found a girlfriend, but there is something I've been hiding from her

by ronweasley in

all is well and good in my life right now :) with one small catch... i have a secret that i have hidden from my girlfriend.. for the first time since coming out of the borg, i have found romance.

i was lucky to meet a girl called romilda (name has been changed), and we get on like a house in fire.

we have been in a relationship for a few days now, but some of my friends have pointed out that i should be honest with her and be straight about my sexuallity.

laverite

Wow, I kind of feel bad for RonW because of some of these answers. I am not bisexual, so I do not speak from personal experience. However, I don't get the suspiciousness with which bisexual people are received among both straight and gay people. People who are bisexual are not oversexed, sexual lunatics. Some may be but that could be true for some people of any sexual orientation. Being bisexual is about an attraction to both sexes, and there are degrees of bisexuality. I think of it more in terms of bisexualities in the plural, as there are many types and ways of being bi.

People who are bi can be monogamous. Just like anyone, bisexual people can fall in love and be with the one they love. Straight people and gay people and bi people all find other people other than their partners attractive. But to be dedicated to someone in a monogamous way, that has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

The things people brought up in this thread about all kinds of topics from AIDS to monogamy to selfishenss to dishonesty. Wow, there were just so many assumptions on this thread. I'm suprised a bit by the level of bias and prejudice.

For me, I would care much more about the "loyalty factor" that jgnat wrote about. Whether or not they were bi wouldn't be an issue for me.

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Elders' Gems of Wisdom

by stephenw20 in

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my dad asked the co about this one.

mat 27:52-53. and the graves were opened; and many bodies of the saints which slept arose, .

and came out of the graves after his resurrection, and went into the holy city, and appeared unto many.

laverite

Love the one notjustyet shared -- about not hitting any stars on the way to moon. I'm trying not to laugh too hard as I am bleaching my teeth right now. So flipping funny!

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Have your views on gays changed over the years?

by laverite in

jw
friends

some questions....feel free to answer any or all of these.

have your views of gay people changed over the years?

do you have or have you ever had gay friends?

laverite

Pistoff,

I was thinking more about the JW cultural revulsion to homosexuality recently and remembered what you wrote above. It goes beyond just an intellectual and philosophical/religious opposition. It seems to be an over the top physical revulsion -- at least with some members of my family. The problem is that there are now several gay young people in my family and they are seriously in "hiding" out of fear. The strength of the negative reaction is what scares them to death. That does not make them any less gay. All it does is help to ensure that the information is kept from the haters so to speak. And it's so hateful toward these teenage relatives knowing their families are so anti THEM and that so many of their relatives do not know the real truth about who they are.