Hi EdenOne, i'm sorry that your wife has returned to the WTBTS's "vomit" (Proverbs 26:11).
What hobbies/interests does your wife's authentic persona love to do that is time-consuming and will help her meet more non-JWs. Unless you help her to enjoy life and learn to overcome thought-stopping platitudes, she may prefer not to critically think for herself just like Cypher did in the Matrix. Has your wife watched the Matrix?
Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,
Robert