Used to know a very dedicated person who was on assembly programs.
Pioneered a lot & had tons of studys ...turns out he/she was living a lie.
Wasn't actually doing any witnessing ....all a lie!
i think we all know the reason millions of less hours.
when i was in we went to a rv by the kingdom hall then drove 30 minutes out to the country to knock on a door then back to the city for one more door.
god must be so proud!
Used to know a very dedicated person who was on assembly programs.
Pioneered a lot & had tons of studys ...turns out he/she was living a lie.
Wasn't actually doing any witnessing ....all a lie!
since leaving the jw religion,what can you say that you have learned about life/people in a positive way that you probably would have never experienced.
if you had remained a witness ?.
my story is regarding this :.
Man in Black ...nice to see you. Sorry about the lack of love regarding
your Mom. Feels like the message of the watchtower changes us into
plastic people ... we are standing there but there is no warmth or personality
left!
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There are so many things I learned since leaving...basically how pointless
it all is.
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There was never a place in 50 years when I felt ... I have done enough,
I am good enough. I won't be killed at A.
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I laugh at the idiocy & insanity of it all now!
I weep at the loss of what could have been.
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In the case of my parent, who never had a jw visit in 2 yrs
before she died in hospital, I learned "out of sight, out of mind",
unless we trudge d2d & go to all mtgs ...we have no value.
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(((3rdgen))) so very sorry about the loss of your son...
clarity
bigmac ...
SfPW still here then--? the clock is ticking--lol |
Hmmmmm ..... only a matter of time.
to be honest i figured until i received some pleasure, enjoyment.
in waking people up on their day off, there was no way i was going.
to pressure anyone else to do the same.
At first I had the "zeal" ( ) & was quite thrilled with thinking
I was helping the poor people .... omg that soon wore off!
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One awful thing happened that really had me scratching my head,
as I was told we had J's protection, a 'sister' in the group was
taking an older lady to the doors ....& the older one fell on icy steps!
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She broke her hip ...never recovered & died about 6 mths later
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Nice huh!
clarity
http://www.upworthy.com/a-4-year-old-girl-asked-a-lesbian-if-shes-a-boy-she-responded-the-awesomest-way-possible.
hotb .
HOTB ...thanks for posting .... as it so relates to the jw closet too!
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The part that really hit home with me was the shot of the grenade!
Ready to explode! Showing the effect on our health in every part of
our being!
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Stuffing the WHOLE TTATT down & being afraid of losing family
or friends ...is smothering me & probably many on here!
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I know what my next step must be.
clarity
section 3 first!.
how was bible truth rediscovered?.
it goes in to the section and explains that false teachers were foretold to arise after jesus died (and the apostles died according to one conment).
Jan ...it has been awhile since I could actually look at these mags
without barrffing but ...there are 3 watchtowers:
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1. a simplified version....for "field service" for the language impaired.
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2. a regular version...with bad stuff left out ...for "field service".
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3. a study version...with bad stuff in.. to keep up the brainwashing.
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If this has changed plse correct!
clarity
# 3 newbie post.
first of all, the newbies have set a record here!.
have you ever seen a 4pg post where 21 new members reply!
Hi Phizzy ...nice to see you here & thanks for that advice!
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Hey we have another brave person ... first post tonight...
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Big welcome to ...20 ... you have a short & sweet name there 20!
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Tell us a bit about yourself, how you found us & what made you doubt.
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You might want to start your own thread & really tell your story,
being careful to leave out names & things that could identify you
if you are just fading. Great to have you join us!
clarity
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i asked my son quite randomly before bed what he thinks the meaning of life is.
like always, his answer brought a smile to my face.
he said, "to have a great time .. to have fun and have friends ... and be happy.
I especially liked his words "I love it (that) Iam alive"
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Words to live by ... I can't wait till I can say that!
thanks Paul
clarity
ive increasingly noticed the amount of time devoted to trying to convince others why wt and jws are the "truth" and how christ appointed them instead of just praise and worship to god.
even the songs that are sung at meetings--many of them talk about listenng obeying and being blessed, and how god gave us gifts in men, etc.
and have reached even the thoughts and speech patterns of those who add "and his earthly organization" at the end of their sentences.
That ... my friend ... is a good question!
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...and why ... did we never question it?
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Busy busy busy ... every day preparing "lessons",
& tromping d2d, feeling superior cause we know so much!
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Proof positive that we were systematically being 'brain washed'
to just serve an organization of men!
clarity
Unstopable good for you! CONGRATULATIONS
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Throw a party ....or go out for a wonderful dinner.
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Order flowers for your wife. Be a kid again!
Take your wife out dancing .. she will start being happy too!
clarity