is this the latest bs to pacify the multiple thousands of singles who are made veritable eunochs because of this organization?
...when i tearfully blurted out that i just couldn't carry on any longer!
i mean almost three decades, for g*ds sake!
Loosie - Hi Loosie, amazing how people, secure in their positions and circumstances, look over from their Comfortable Pew ... and haven't a clue about you! Yes, what are you there for - just to sit on the sidelines and watch your youth and opportunity piss pass away? Oh don't get me started! Thanks for sharing your story with us.
clarity
is this the latest bs to pacify the multiple thousands of singles who are made veritable eunochs because of this organization?
...when i tearfully blurted out that i just couldn't carry on any longer!
i mean almost three decades, for g*ds sake!
Sir82 - How's that for sad? Very! A faded picture, memory's ... all that's left of what could/should have been. You wake up one morning and realize you LIFE has been stolen. For whaaattt! gawd what a cult! Sad sad sad. Thanks a lot for your input and sharing your experience Sir.
clarity
is this the latest bs to pacify the multiple thousands of singles who are made veritable eunochs because of this organization?
...when i tearfully blurted out that i just couldn't carry on any longer!
i mean almost three decades, for g*ds sake!
Empty inside - dear, dear lady thank you for your response and also for initial comment earlier. I am just getting the 'hang of it' so plse forgive the delay. There are so many sitting waiting their lives away!
Cantleave - thank you for the support, yes the patronizing, the never quite fitting in anywhere, we are imprisoned ... backed into a corner with no way out ... well except maybe more mtgs more service bla bla bla!
Justina - don't you just hate how the sisters feel they must line up with the proverbial bowl of soup for the 'newly available' bro (sometimes even before his wife is actually dead/gone) He of course gets to pick the 'very best'. Thanks for your thoughts on this!
Vampire - wow, honey it doesn't sound like you are damaged or gay! We are socially awkward, no kidding, who wouldn't be after the emotional kicking from the sick inhibitions of the so called "leaders"! Thanks for your thoughts. Keep your chin up, there are so many of us.
Lozhasleft - Loz so love your name. Thanks for your great news. When you find a life the whole world seems bigger and more wonderful. congrats! (darn can't stop bolding sorry)
Palmtree67 - Thank you very much for expressing your feelings in such a nice way. Me too. She died last spring... still alone, still "faithful".
WTwizard - thanks for being on here ... for sure it's a very small gene pool to pick from! I was thinking, if I did pass muster at harm ageddon well then, I guess we'll just have to wait for all the little 'bros' to grow up, then there will be more males to pick from!! Sick!!
I Quit - I know, waiting, waiting - to be rescued by harm ageddon! No real home, usually a crappy little apartment, no children ... and of course no grandbabies. I was not born in so thank g*d, I have some of the above ... but can so imagine the grief and remorse of those deceived by the "don't get married, don't have children" commands of the borg! What a legacy!
CoCo - Thank you so much for your welcome. It means a lot to me. What you say is so true and you know, even at times when you do let yourself even entertain the idea of 'getting to know' a worldly person (massive guilt aahhh)- because of the indoctrination, we're just consumed with the depressing thought that this (of course) can't really ... go anywhere ... crap! Plse do carry on CoCo, we need you.
Do we get a second try? Ok then, two-faced. We were trained to be that way. That's why it hurts so much to be in it!
i believe that most dubs remain because of the investment they have made to the "truth".
as soon as men become a ms or an elder they have bought in and can no longer express any doubts felt.
then promotion through full time "service" means an increase in authority over those below and control by those above.
Most of us see the fallacys in retrospect, after years of slogging through it all, whereas the GB, to start with, already know (hehe) and can plan their mode du operandi (sp) ahead of time. Geez, it's so easy isn't it, when you give all the answers and .... you get to ask all the questions!!
clarity
for over one hundred years the watchtower organization has been "pulling the wool" over the eyes of its members.
the jehovah's witnesses believe they are in a "spiritual paradise" where everything is honest, true and in the open.
schemes, scandals, scams, and cover-ups define the very organization they belong to.
Mr F, just have to ask .. why do you still dress like THEM? Seriously, you're always in a suit when I see you.
clarity
ps love your six screens. The music just about creeped me out when I first came on though!
double whammy hypocrisy.
they can utilize certain available resources of "the nations" including computer related and i love how they use the "suck" word.. *** w00 1/1 p. 14 par.
15 "the little one" has become "a thousand" ***.
Booby, .. yeah that word suck was prophetic big time! This borg will suck the life out of anything it can use .. . and then just throw it (them) away!
clarity
one of my groups on facebook posted this video and i'm posting it here cuz i thought it was sweet and poignant:.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7x7szzsxys.
Ahh Mrsjones - that was fabulous! Thanks. Something that everyone can use.
Aloneness is fantastic, a time to think and reflect. Quiet time to be creative, time to grow and appreciate. Also it is fun! Being alone does not equal lonely. What equals lonely ...is a restricted life, not really living your own life. Living a life that is dictated by someone or something else.
clarity
is this the latest bs to pacify the multiple thousands of singles who are made veritable eunochs because of this organization?
...when i tearfully blurted out that i just couldn't carry on any longer!
i mean almost three decades, for g*ds sake!
Is this the latest BS to pacify the multiple thousands of singles who are made veritable eunochs because of this organization? It is enough for you they said to me! ...when I tearfully blurted out that I just couldn't carry on any longer! Alone. I mean almost three decades, for g*ds sake! "Just serve faithfully single for the rest of your (miserable) life, and everyone will be soooo encouraged." Really, if they are going to forbid marriage in any sense of the word, and enforce singleness then maybe they should set up emergency funds to help with the cost of only having one pay cheque coming in! Btw, all the misled window washers and house cleaners do not have pension plans! Could they not have a serious means whereby singles can meet in a dignified way, instead of the silly cat and mouse games, where the brothers are quite backward so the sisters try to be a little forward and bingo...WRONG! Go back to square one!
So no, it is not enough for me to spend the rest of my life alone. This was the tipping point!!
How many CO's do you know who are single? How does 2cor 12:9 apply to singleness? We were purposed to be married! It is Gods will.
This organization has no idea what a monster it has created. Jehovah's happy people? Don't kid yourself ... Jah's great crowd of lonely, lonely people! I had a friend. She had served where the need was great with her husband for twenty years. Special Pioneers. Wonderful hospitable sister. She ended up alone. Wasn't long at all before she no longer was invited to the "in crowd's" get togethers. That servant of jehovah was so lonely, that when she would hear that certain ones were giving dinner parties etc ... she would wait till dark, drive over to their house .... and park out side, just to feel close to the brothers. What do you say? Can you top that!
may God have mercy on all of us.
clarity
most of us here know what a hypocritical, backstabbing bunch of gossips many of the jw's tend to be.
far too often, a jw wont tell you to your face what's eating them, but they'll sure tell others.
when i started waking up (the second time around) this made me very paranoid.
Because I'm not a"born in", the gossip comparison of regular people with jw's is spectacular! Seems the 'Join Up' gives you automatic claim to know everything about everybody else's business! You know it's true. If some secret stuff was told in a little congregation anywhere, within a day, chances are the network would spread it throughout the jw world! Talk about entitlement! Sheeeesh ruuunnnnn!
clarity
