Peacefulpete, nice observation.
In general I try to be respectful of people's beliefs. Since I've left jwland I've had nice conversations with believers, atheists, even clergy. My wife's cousins are extremely "spiritual" and they are some of the most kind, caring people. I love spending time with them.
In Kosonen's case though, his condescension, the Watchtower speak with leading questions have been irresistible for me.
I do feel sorry for his family.