Mr Monroe, thanks for sharing that story. It's so typical when JW friends find out you have left, they just can not understand how someone can leave THE ONLY TRUE religion!!!! ('true religion' is an oxymoron if I ever I heard one)
I had the same thing happen to me and yes that question sure is a loaded one!
I loved the way you explained how that question assumes several things, I think you are so spot on my friend. If you say 'no' to that question you pretty much have just hang yourself. It's the same as saying you don't believe in Jehovah God!
I did have an elder just simple ask me out right a few times "If I no longer wanted to be JW?" He sure sounded like he just wanted to hear me say 'yes' to that so he can wipe his hands of me...
BTW: I have received your PM & will email tomorrow.
3Mozzies