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  Question about an elder visit at home...

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  last meeting my father was asked what a good day/time would be for the whole family to be present at home by one of the elders.

  i haven't exactly been behaving within jw 'standards' so i'm a bit paranoid (sn ;]) a friend suggested it's probably just the visits they do (forget the name in eng.

  ) and as our co visit is in about 2 weeks it makes sense.... could they possibly be coming to confront me about my actions though?

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  paranoid

  I have a link to a PDF version of the manual on my bookmarks :) so I've reviewed it. Knowing that at least one elder is coming is definitely spooky! I'll be on the lookout to see if there is more than one...paranoia is not pleasant at all.
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  Question about an elder visit at home...

  by paranoid in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  last meeting my father was asked what a good day/time would be for the whole family to be present at home by one of the elders.

  i haven't exactly been behaving within jw 'standards' so i'm a bit paranoid (sn ;]) a friend suggested it's probably just the visits they do (forget the name in eng.

  ) and as our co visit is in about 2 weeks it makes sense.... could they possibly be coming to confront me about my actions though?

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  paranoid

  Thanks for the support, honestly. I'm not sure if more than one elder will be coming. I know the coworker situation is not enough for me to be DF'd, so I'm not worried about that, I just would like to be prepared for the situation with the parental unit. I've had a private reproof before, but that was held at the KH. Any sort of confrontation for an accusation would usually be held at the KH though right?
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  Question about an elder visit at home...

  by paranoid in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  last meeting my father was asked what a good day/time would be for the whole family to be present at home by one of the elders.

  i haven't exactly been behaving within jw 'standards' so i'm a bit paranoid (sn ;]) a friend suggested it's probably just the visits they do (forget the name in eng.

  ) and as our co visit is in about 2 weeks it makes sense.... could they possibly be coming to confront me about my actions though?

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  paranoid

  Thanks for the welcome!

  More Info: Yes I am baptized, and yes I have done things that could possibly get me DF'd...a sister recently confronted me saying she 'found out' about my coworker and I, but had a talk with me and I told her I had ended things, and that it before anything went too far. She hasn't said a word since.

  And that situation wasn't enough for me to be DF'd in my opinion. The more serious stuff is still not 'out in the open' :)
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  Question about an elder visit at home...

  by paranoid in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  last meeting my father was asked what a good day/time would be for the whole family to be present at home by one of the elders.

  i haven't exactly been behaving within jw 'standards' so i'm a bit paranoid (sn ;]) a friend suggested it's probably just the visits they do (forget the name in eng.

  ) and as our co visit is in about 2 weeks it makes sense.... could they possibly be coming to confront me about my actions though?

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  paranoid

  Last meeting my father was asked what a good day/time would be for the whole family to be present at home by one of the elders. I haven't exactly been behaving within JW 'standards' so I'm a bit paranoid (SN ;]) A friend suggested it's probably just the visits they do (forget the name in ENG.) and as our CO visit is in about 2 weeks it makes sense...

  Could they possibly be coming to confront me about my actions though? Has this happened to anybody? Any time I've ever been spoken to w/my family present has been in the KH...