Zeb you are right. The elders show up at the home of an inactive one uninvited. They remark that the person's lawn is not tidy, or his grooming is worldly. If some other JW happens to see them out and about they run to the elders to tattle that they saw him with a cigarette in his hand or whatever.
So now Jesus' words at Matthew 7:2 apply: for with what judgement you are judging, you will be judged, and with the measure that you are measuring out, they will measure out to you."
The next verse mentions the rafter in one's own eye.....We can keep going with this.....if he needs the "loving counsel". Ha ha ha