Simon : Funny ... but really - "woe to us, people are making an attempt to show an interest & be accepting even though they don't always say the right thing" ? The alternative is being ignored or "oh you're gay? yeah, I really don't give a shit" Is that better?
Yes! All those things. According to my (gayxjw) friend there has been some debate within that community concerning the nature of 'acceptance.' I wont recapitulate, others can probably detail that debate better than I would.
Its the highlighted portion of Simon's comment that's worth thinking about.
In the short street where he lives, there are four apartment blocks. In three of the four the only persons willing to undertake the (rather) onerous voluntary task of running the Owners Corporations are same sex attracted. Two live openly with their partners and no-one gives a damn.
They sleep in the same bed. Who cares! ('Gives a shit,' as Simon expressed it)
But to reach that level there is a process that involves questioning by the majority segment of the community.
Sex is something on everyone's mind, but these questions are somewhat superfluous as same sex attracted men and women cant and don't do anything that the majority opposite sex attracted people do or can do.
The Rebel : that was a fun video, and may I say I think it great that such sketches in the year 2016, no longer display Gay men as puny neurotic and with vulnability.
I agree, that, but as one gay guy explained at one of my friend's parties. In the days of social ostracism and police persecution, 'butch' (his word) gay guys more easily escaped detection, but effeminate guys could not. (think the movie, 'The Birdcage').
Actually at some of these parties I've met really masculine gay men. The old stereotypes are false.
The Rebel : Sorry if my post subtracted from the good humor intended with the thread ... Once again sorry about the serious post, but threads like yours, I hope help people like me accept my former prejudice was wrong and what I was taught by an organistion was wrong and many of the films I watched were wrong in there portrayal of what makes a man.
Not at all! When I first saw the clip yesterday, my first reaction was to the humorous aspect. Then I considered further and saw a deeper side. Which I invited people to consider with my question, "what do you think?"
So interesting that people saw the funny side. Even 12-15 years ago many participants in these sort of threads may still have been hostile.
DJS : Is that an I-phone in your pocket or are you happy to see me?
Umm! Wish we could ask Mae West (or, her scriptwriter) whether the gag works the same with an iphone
Coalize did not seem to think the same. (grin)
Still a gun cant be loaded with the grindr app, which is (it is said) has greatly aided gay 2 gay contacts.
(BTW, since you have often expressed your international affairs interest. Did you note that a Chinese company has bought grindr ? My mind is boggling at the possibilities in China.