PaintedToeNail: Hi Tim, I'm very curious as to why you keep making your homosexuality a huge issue. Are you not more than your penis? No disrespect intended, I'm just wondering. Quendi and some other gay posters don't seem to come across as this issue being so consuming for them.
1 - Quendi and some of us other gay posters were consumed at one time. We may be further along in our individual processes but rest assured, the subject matter consumed our thinking at one point.
2 - Have you ever worked yourself into a knot, feeling like you were going to puke in fear of having to tell your parents that you were straight, knowing that it could result in your being kicked out of the house, disfellowshipped - basically the end of your little universe? No?
3 - Timmy did not make homosexuality such a big issue. Your people did that. Timmy, like every homo that has gone before, is trying to plow through years of what amounts to psychological abuse from an anti-gay society (which is changing, granted), parents/family, religion, etc... and he's doing a very good job.
Timmy, I wish I'd had the wherewithall to handle my "process" with the level-headed approach you seem to be capable of. I'm a little jealous. In the meantime, keep hammering out this issue for as long as you need, using everyone here as a sounding board.
You're doing just fine! :)