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  Lurker....wants expert assistance (question)

  by refiners fire in

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  i got a couple of lurkers emailing to me at the moment!.

  anyway.... one of them has a question and we need the input of a boffin like alan f, or jt.. elderly lady, just got df,after 40 years of service, wants to know, now shes df, will the org still take her money that shes bequeathed to them in her will.?.

  does she need to change her will to prevent the org from gettings its clammy claws on her bucks.?.

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  Joyce:

  You will need to change your will and I would specifically mention in the new will that not only does this new Will replace any before it state that you specifically do NOT want the WT Society to receive any benefit from your estate monetary or otherwise.

  There is a reason the Society wanted you to send a copy of your Will to them, so when you die they can go after your estate for what they feel is rightfully theirs.

  There was one case in Australia where the person was DF'ed and the Society took the family to court. They settled only giving 40% of the estate to the family.

  This is definitely a situation where you would want a recognized attorney to prepare this document for you.

  Kismet
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  NEW EXJW ON THE BLOCK

  by buffy in

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  you can read my bio to find out a little about me.

  basically, i need support.

  even after two years, i still think.

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  Buffy:

  Welcome to our little piece of cyberspace. Intersting bio and I look forward to getting to hear more of your JW experiences as well as how you have grown since leaving the Org.

  This is a great place where you will find a variety of opinions, bliefs and survival techniques in dealing with leaving the JW's.

  We even have our own zealous 'pioneers' trying to convert people to another religion. (Just a word of warning in that regard.) LOL

  There are a lot of great people with varied stories. I suggest checking out the Personal experience section of this forum. Some of the stories will no doubt echo many of your own thoughts.

  As far as your kids goes, the threats of a man made organization are powerless against your children. They only have power if we give them such. As you read and research things for yourself you will find most of the teachings/threats of the Org to be hollow.

  Best wishes on your journey away from the WatchTower. If we can be of any help, just ask the board or find someone you connect with and ask them. Most here are always willing to lend a hand.

  Kismet
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  I Love You......Life

  by DannyBear in

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  imagining the beauty of a loved ones face, long departed.

  remembering a single moment in life that causes your spirit to sing.

  having that sensation that you just awakened to a whole new world, filled with that tingle in your stomach feeling, you had when kissing your very first lover.

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  It was great re-reading this thread. It put a big smile on my face!

  TeeJay, a monster and tryant eh? Well she comes by it honestly (smirking) lol. It is always good to hear a parent gushing over their child/ren.

  Have a great weekend all!!!

  Kismet
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  I have a confession to make

  by BATHORY in

  1. jw
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  i couldnt sleep tonight, i mean i just went to bed and tryed, but something inside of me forced me back up to write this post, and im dead tired.. i guess i always knew that i did it, even though it fell deep deep into the pits of my mind.. at times ( like now ) when i look back and think " did i really do that " at times i almost convince myself that it wasnt me, it was a story someone had related to me, a scene in a movie that i somehow integrated into my memory and now wasnt sure if it is real or not etc etc.. friggin damb it though, as much as i find relief in toying with the forced denials of it all, and then wondering onto a different thought line without ever coming to a conclusion or facing my actions and dealing with it in an appropriate way......i guess thats what im attempting to do here at 2:20 in the bloody morning !.

  i think i remember touching a girl ( she was 12 ) in an inappropriate way.

  she was the young daughter of the family that were studying with my parents, and during the study i would play with the kids and anyhow.. im sorry if this sounds weird, its late, im tired and with all this talk lately i guess it has surfaced out from the latent annals of my deepest memory.. .

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  Some how I can't help but feel that Bathory is yet again plying his stupid mind games on the participants here.

  Just as he lied in the past. Likely he will wait until enough people post, then say he was only 4 years old and it was his 12 year old baby sitter or something like that.

  If he is actually confessing this happened when he was an adult or mature teen, this is the wrong place for such a confession.

  Just as the elders are not qualified to deal with allegations of abuse, the participants at an anonymous forum are also not qualified to help you deal with any such claim.

  If legitimate, go to a therapist or proper authority in your area. Determine the validity of your repressed memory. Once that is done, take steps to take responsibility for your actions.

  Once again, this isn't the place IMO for the help you need (whether your story is fabricated - mindgames - or not)

  Kismet
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  Silentlambs response to WT Media

  by silentlambs in

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  2. child-abuse

  distribute freely.... silentlambs response to inquires about watchtower misinformation.

  mr. brown-child abuse is an evil.

  its an evil of our time; its an evil in our society.

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  Mr. Bowen-Actually the top priority is to protect Watchtower money. And we want to make sure whatever steps need to be taken, both by Legal, Service and the elders, protect us from getting sued by child molesters. Our second priority has to do with confidentiality and making sure victims or their families warn no one in the congregation about the molester. Our third priority is to silence any other member of the congregation from saying there is any problem with child molestation by disfellowshipping.

  Actually the number one priority above all other is to protect the reputation of the organziation. They will do or say anything, including gross distortions of truth in order to protect the good name of the Watchtower Society. Then comes money etc.

  Kismet
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  The "Troof" about Alan F. Secrets Out

  by noidea in

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  2. friends

  he is a "babe magnet" .

  yes, those that met me over the weekend at the silentlambs vigil know that in person i am a shy and reserved type.

  when it came to picture taking time..who could resist.

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  Myself:

  If that wasn't you in the segment, any idea who the blonde was? They showed her once hugging Erica and then inside the courtroom standing in the background as Erica hugged Bill.

  I didn't realize there were so many good looking apostates!!!! (yeah that was a compliment. )

  Kismet
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  The "Troof" about Alan F. Secrets Out

  by noidea in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  he is a "babe magnet" .

  yes, those that met me over the weekend at the silentlambs vigil know that in person i am a shy and reserved type.

  when it came to picture taking time..who could resist.

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  Is the younger gal in the back the same person that was shown in the Dateline Segment in court with Erica?

  Just trying to put faces to aliases.

  If confidential, ignore this request.

  Kismet
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  I met Farkel......

  by KJV in

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  if you want to know what i think of him, call me at 760-947-9704.

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  KJV:

  I am envious. I would enjoy spending a day with Fark, sharing war stories with the Borg, reminiscing about the glory days of H20 (Yes there were some great times had there) and of cours the mandatory raising of a couple of pints!

  He has many stories to tell. I for one would enjoy listening to them.

  Whether or not I would remember them is a different story (hiccup) The scotch my impede that! :)

  Kismet
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  Raw Pain

  by Cassiline in

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  recently a poster left here, shortly after i found the reason why.

  while listening to this person i could not only hear the feelings of raw pain i could feel them as well.

  this hurt.. for this person exposed them self on the forum as a silentlamb not only for support, camaraderie, friendship but also to share their own thoughts and views.

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  Cassiline:

  You are a class act! Excellent post and words/ideas definitely worth heeding.

  Thank you.

  Kismet
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  Barbara Anderson's Role at Bethel Questioned

  by Kismet in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  both here and in some private correspondence i have received the role of barbara anderson as detailed in the dateline segment has been questioned.. the main reason is that she is a 'she' and not a 'he' and that 'she's' should not have access to confidential records at bethel.. anyone who served at bethel for any length of time discovered that bethel doesn't always work by the same rules as those they issue to the congregation.. i met barbara while she was in the midst of her proclaimer research.

  it was likely just another 'branch tour' to her, but i do remember speaking with her and being impressed by the intelligence behind and shine of her eyes.

  a couple of items of interest that should help dispell those who doubt the role she had in brooklyn.

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  Long story behind that slip up. Thanks for catching it!

  An embarrassed Kismet