LongHairGal - “…When you talk about a ‘compassionate fellowship’ you couldn’t possibly mean some of the older die-hards in the religion!”
I never said they’d like it.
I suggested they might’ve found it acceptable…
…i.e. there’d be very little in it that directly contradicted any of the core tenets of their belief system, whilst giving the appearance of lightening up, in order to meet certain short-term survival needs.
They frame every decision as a “loving provision”. This would fit that MO, even if they didn’t actually mean it.