Jofi_Wofo - "...Another elder took me aside and told me that I looked miserable and that I needed to cut it out because it makes the religion look bad to unbelievers. We need to give them the impression that being a JW is pure joy, even if we are hurting badly in the inside..."
Wow, what a great recipe for an entire group of people who are experts at faking shit.
You know what this actually sounds like? Mandy Moore's character in Saved...
...she literally and deliberately pressured all her evangelical friends into actively pursuing that precise agenda.
Guess what happened? She was completely discredited and humiliated by the end of the movie.