Posts by V1922

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My Experience with Wordly Guys

by LaurenM in

sorry, two posts in a day..but i need to vent something: so far my experience with "worldly" guys has not been the best 1. my first guy experience was with a dude who left state and never came back 2. a coworker asked me to netflix and chill and i did 3. a guy wanted to sext me all the time but never took me out on a date and i did 4. a guy who took me on a great date but then asked me up to his apartment immediately after and then didn't call me after 5. finally, another great date, until after the guy texted me asking for nude pics..told him no!

so basically i've concluded that i had been giving off a vibe that i had no self respect and that was confirmed by me allowing them to use me as a sex object..but i'm hoping that not all worldly guys are like this, and when i start acting like i have self respect, they will treat me like that too?

is that a good assumption?

V1922

I have been mentally hurt and confused by dating a JW man worst than a non-JW man. He wanted to be in every aspect of my life at home, come around my kids, ask what I was doing all the time when I wasn't with him. We only "dated" outside the city limits. I asked him what was wrong with being in a public relationship and he said he wasn't ready. I asked around and read about JW policies and I knew why. And it broke my heart that he would lead me on for almost 2 years just for a physical relationship and control me like a husband would but with no commitment.

A man is a man. Whether he is DF, non-JW, JW, if he is CONFUSED in his own life RUN because he will ruin yours. Know what YOU want first.

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JW ended a relationship with me

by V1922 in

my jw boyfriend just ended a year and a half relationship with me.

it came out the blue and i'm deeply hurt by this because we were so compatible.

he did it right before the big annual gathering he is presently attending.

V1922

Thanks for this information! I have been learning as much as I can to see where did I go wrong. He is also divorced and has a son. His ex is also JW and she remarried and divorced again. I though all this was frowned upon. He mentioned something about having to study a bunch of materials. I don't even know if he's baptised or what his actual standing is with the JW other than he is trying to be reinstated?? He always hangs with his brother and sees his parents so he's not ostracized. I don't know where the truth is with him because I have a feeling he'll try to come back and I want to be well informed on how to stop this cycle.

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JW ended a relationship with me

by V1922 in

my jw boyfriend just ended a year and a half relationship with me.

it came out the blue and i'm deeply hurt by this because we were so compatible.

he did it right before the big annual gathering he is presently attending.

V1922

Thanks for all the feedback. I haven't been to a KH meeting. I think I just want to move on, but he still text like he cares and say he's praying all the time, etc. We only live 5 minutes from each other and there are two KH in this area. I dont know where he goes but after reading all the post and other information, this religion seems very disturbing. I thought they were nice people and I don't want to blanket judge anyone but he has some serious problems stemming from his upbringing.

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JW ended a relationship with me

by V1922 in

my jw boyfriend just ended a year and a half relationship with me.

it came out the blue and i'm deeply hurt by this because we were so compatible.

he did it right before the big annual gathering he is presently attending.

V1922

My JW boyfriend just ended a year and a half relationship with me. It came out the blue and I'm deeply hurt by this because we were so compatible. He did it right before the big annual gathering he is presently attending. I thought this man truly loved me and I had not dated and was celibate two years before dating him. He recently said he was so unhappy with his life but he didn't mind having sex with me and going out to social events, concerts, etc. I even let him come around my children. I guess I'm trying to find a way to get over him or try to understand why did he even bother with me in the first place????? I feel like he has done this before with other women because one woman confronted me on social media about how they were in a relationship then dumped her for me. This man is leaving a "a wake of dead bodies" (women that he has played this game with). What type of religion condones the type of rationale to deceive people and if you don't follow them they just up and throw you away?????