Posts by Dumplin

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What I said to an Elder and the matter was dropped.

by Simon Templar in

i decided to tell this small story.. about 25 years ago, we lived in a certain area in the usa and associated with the local congregation there.

coincidently, one of the elders was the assistant congregation servant in a different kh and congregation which i grew up in.

therefore, we knew one another well.

Dumplin

An older elder in our cong had a term he used for this when it happened to him: 'phantom accusers'.

And if there's more than one, they get to misuse the ol' 2witness rule against you. This happened to me too and was instrumental in waking me up. It was a sucker punch.

I was listening to a McNeill/Lehrer interview of one of Pres. Reagan's military strategists (can't remember the name right now). He wrote a book after the Berlin Wall came down something about the "Evil Empire". He made a comment about what he thought made Communist Russia an evil empire. When I heard this, I never forgot it, because it described exactly the way the borg works too and one of the reasons I think it's evil.

He said: "There was no security on a personal level against arbitrary attacks." (speaking of KGB)

I thought to myself: Bingo!

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Good news/bad news but really good news all because of a wonderful board member

by Still Totally ADD in

jw
friends

this last week i was e-mailed that my aunt had died.

she was 95 years old and had a long a good life with a loving family around her.

the reason this is more good news than bad is because due to the help of a member on this board i was able to reconnect with her.

Dumplin

LoisLane was the 1st person here to PM me when I first joined and was very helpful to me in understanding how the site works.

to have a friend you must be a friend, they say. LL is this type of person, i think.

thanks again, Lois

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What is the most strange action of a witness while out in field service?

by adjusted knowledge in

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friends

i was paired with this older "brother" when i was a teenager.

he was very very strange.

he was a nice guy but goofy.

Dumplin

Just came home from work and thought of some more.

When i was just 15 yo one of my first doors was a 30 something woman who opened the door topless.

Another time, my wife's skirt fell off while we were talking to some guy at the door... it was one of those Ricky Ricardo moments...ha!

Then there was the time my 5 yo son disappeared while I was talking at the door. I ran around the corner of the house and he was peeing on her rhododendron.

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What is the most strange action of a witness while out in field service?

by adjusted knowledge in

jw
friends

i was paired with this older "brother" when i was a teenager.

he was very very strange.

he was a nice guy but goofy.

Dumplin

James Mixon 12 minutes ago

A JW came to my door and killed my cat.

THERE'S NO PROOF OF THAT!!

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What is the most strange action of a witness while out in field service?

by adjusted knowledge in

jw
friends

i was paired with this older "brother" when i was a teenager.

he was very very strange.

he was a nice guy but goofy.

Dumplin

it climbed under my hood to keep warm while i was at the door. no one home. i came back, started my car, and poof! no more cat. So like a conscientious witness, I immediately went to remove the evidence (my wt back issue i'd left in the door). Then my conscience took over and I thought they would wonder why fluffy didn't come back, so I placed the cat in the garbage can so they could find him.

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What is the most strange action of a witness while out in field service?

by adjusted knowledge in

jw
friends

i was paired with this older "brother" when i was a teenager.

he was very very strange.

he was a nice guy but goofy.

Dumplin

i accidentally killed a homeowners cat once.

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The morning after I KILLED myself...

by Divergent in

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friends

a very thought provoking poem.... .

the morning after i killed myself, i woke up.

i made myself breakfast in bed.

Dumplin

i liked it.

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Today I learned - I'm incapable of having a relationship

by Garrett in

hello my dear friends,.

while this post may not be entirely witness related, i figured i'd write out my thoughts here as a form of release and reflection.. recently, a lot has changed in my life.

i'm away from home for the first time in a long while training to get certified in a field i'm not even sure i want to work in anymore.

Dumplin

Ha! When Louise said look in the mirror in the morning... it reminded me of this scene in the Angel-A movie:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HRrFvapV4ms

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Today I learned - I'm incapable of having a relationship

by Garrett in

hello my dear friends,.

while this post may not be entirely witness related, i figured i'd write out my thoughts here as a form of release and reflection.. recently, a lot has changed in my life.

i'm away from home for the first time in a long while training to get certified in a field i'm not even sure i want to work in anymore.

Dumplin

I couldn't help overhearing. I was eavesdropping.

i'm no relationship expert at all. in fact, my moniker is 'basement guy'. (but i'll save that for another thread)

but my older 'never a JW' sister is good at giving me advice. She told me that she believes in the wisdom of Louise Hay. So here's part of what my sis tells me in an email: "She wrote a book called "you can heal your body" (then a subsequent book "You can Heal Your Life" in which the first book is just a chapter!) and it covers every ailment from headaches to Aids and what's causing them. It's about the body "yelling" at us because something is going on in our lives and we're not paying attention. Most of the stuff is amazingly logical."

Not that this is about your body, Garret. But I think FayeD may be on to something. And maybe it would help to read some of Louis Hay's stuff or even watch a youtube of her. here's a sample: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QmCLfVRxgtw

i guess she's helped a lot of people.

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Everybody loves Raymond

by Saintbertholdt in

a while ago the user vinman started a forum thread called: "ray franz was an idiot".

the reaction to it was quite negative but i have to admit that the title of that thread was intriguing to me.

by nature i am an iconoclast.

Dumplin

Franz wanted to rule the world like everybody else, and he had personal selfish motivations. His supposed pure altruism was pure horse manure.

I believe RF was not typical of GB members of his era. I had friends at Bethel that said he would mingle with the workers and discuss their personal matters and concerns with them. Ray seemed genuine in his concern for the boys at bethel and how they were doing (according to my friend), while other elites treated him (my friend) harshly. I agree w/ Wasanelder "he was not in any way seeking status or prominence" and I can't impute a takeover strategy to him or even impure motives...don't think it's in his personality. He was a man of conviction caught between a rock and a hard place. He did the best he could do under the circumstances... must've aged him. I'm grateful to him for what he did.