It seems that more people are beginning to get past the whole mantra of "don't play their game" and deciding or pondering the idea of writing a letter and cutting off all ties. Truthfully fading becomes a chore for some of the people that I know who are faders.
They spend enormous amounts of time hiding or actually deciding to try to sell their home or move. I understand some people have no choice but to try to fade but who wants to spend 2,5,10years or the rest of their life being who they are not just to please others or have contact with people who are doing exactly what they want to do