i guess the title says it all, but i'll expand.. recently met this beautiful girl who through another party expressed her interest in me which was quite flattering to be honest.
im a 27 year old guy and truth is that i have really struggled with this kind of stuff since leaving the dubs a few years back now.
i guess i still have their theories floating around in my head, you know, all the old rubbish about dating some of which goes back to that youth book.. we spoke today for the first time properly and i think it's game on.
(and NO! This is NOT from personal experience, you idiots.)
Dating is a meeting of the mind, heart, and body. Your body might react on its own, so learn self-control primarily. The moment you embrace, the emotions come into play along with the body desires.......
So many relationships are based upon the physical aspects instead of the heart felt motivations. Learn to balance out the mind, heart, and body in order to preserve the relationship.
Estephan
i guess the title says it all, but i'll expand.. recently met this beautiful girl who through another party expressed her interest in me which was quite flattering to be honest.
im a 27 year old guy and truth is that i have really struggled with this kind of stuff since leaving the dubs a few years back now.
i guess i still have their theories floating around in my head, you know, all the old rubbish about dating some of which goes back to that youth book.. we spoke today for the first time properly and i think it's game on.
Dating in the JW world means no sex until marriage, but dating in the real world obviously does not.
Ok, what about divorce? Fornication is grounds for divorce so once one party mixes with the unclean practices of the world, that is grounds for divorce. Even a lie is grounds unless there is repentance and forgiveness......
Where is it written that GOD requires a certificate of marriage? Jesus authorized this as the law of the land so that things will go good for you. When the law does not require that you sign a marriage certificate there is no need (common law marriage)......simple dont you think?
Point of the matter is, you are not sinning if you do not sign a marriage certificate. You still have to beware of worldy people, you know, like the "black widow spider" of the female you are attracted to lol......
Estephan
have you ever heard of anonymous?.
anonymous is an amorphos underground collective of internet activists - interactivists.
many of their activities are illegal, or at least reside in the grey area of legality.
sorry Nickolas, the WTS is simply not on the radar when it comes to the grand scheme of things.
Yes they are. They are not "the true religion" as they profess, nor are they "the faithful and discreet slave" as they profess. However, they are the most accurate faith, and first in line to The Almighty GOD as a "worthy" organization.......they have taught many including the "true" faithful and discreet slave" myself, Estephan Leuese. Those that adhere to GOD's word and LOVE their GOD are many of those known as Jehovah's Witnesses. I give testimony to this as I have many brothers and sisters in the organization that I love dearly.......
Estephan Leuese
WELCOME BACK FORMER "SON OF MAN" ... well dosn't anyone recognise his photo? he was on here about a year ago using the username "son of man" or at least somthing like it.Anyway he was saying that god put messages into his head about his purpose for mankind. His posts just got werider and werider.
seems like hes back again.Either that... or hes got a twin!
No twin, it is me right now with a limited amount of posts but not for long....... And thank you for the warm welcome.....
... well dosn't anyone recognise his photo?
I wasn't playing attention but yeah I recognize the SOB. He's back to spew again.
Gee, you be mean :)
Same Guy, Different Photo
Brownboy, is that you?
Yes Poppers, It is me "Brownboy"
i guess the title says it all, but i'll expand.. recently met this beautiful girl who through another party expressed her interest in me which was quite flattering to be honest.
im a 27 year old guy and truth is that i have really struggled with this kind of stuff since leaving the dubs a few years back now.
i guess i still have their theories floating around in my head, you know, all the old rubbish about dating some of which goes back to that youth book.. we spoke today for the first time properly and i think it's game on.
I still refer to women that do not believe in GOD as "worldly". There is a huge difference between a female that believes in GOD to one that does not. For one, worldly females have their own views about dating and tend to do as they please, even as far as being with another female. They lie, they cheat, they are out after what you have to offer them materially. As for a "spiritual" female there still exists worldly desires, however, they make it a point to adhere to a set of rules based upon their belief in GOD. You have a better chance with a "spiritual" female than a "worldly" one for a lasting relationship. I relay this to you based upon my own experiences. Also drugs, drinking, smoking, and all of the habits of this world come attached to worldly females. Are you willing to put up with a drunk, or drug addict? Many many problems for the people of the world, you are better off listening to GOD and remaining with a female with the love for GOD.......
Estephan
Oh good lord. Please disregard anything the nut above says. Me thinks he's still in love with the sound of his own voice and how great he thinks his aging body looks.
My advice is to take it slow. Concentrate on getting to know this girl. Have fun. It you're not ready for sex and think the third date is too soon, tell her. I once dated a guy who was coming off of being celibate for 18 months abd he asked that we wait for three months. I was fine with that, at least he told me why.
Just take it slow, get to know the girl, and have fun.
Pay no attention to the women behind the curtain she is just blowing steam lol.....
Go ahead and date a worldy female and see if what I say is not true......vicious women hidden behind a mask is a worldly female.
(my body is in better shape than yours Mrs Jones, I guarantee it )
E.
I can't say that I have much practical experience when it comes to dating but I know one thing; lying and pretentiousness will lead to disaster in the end. Be the best YOU that you can be. Don't pretend to be what you're not. And of course, take your time to get to know the girl: don't be in a rush.
I'm too new here to have any clue what this Estephan douchebag has been up to before, but common sense will tell you that he's right crazy. He's a freaking nutter. Don't listen to a damn thing he says. UGH!
V665
Haters.........umhmmm
Estephan
Este,
I agree with the point you are making. A woman with a "Spiritual Christian Foundation" is less likely to have problems because of her Christian "roots". Not all women (or men), but I would agree that most will have less problems as compared to those who have no Christian upbringing or are not currently rooted in some Christian life. When a person has made their foundation through a life of at least "trying" to adhere to Christlike principles, I think the outcome will be much better the majority of the time.
I have had the experience with worldly females, and have even photographed them. There is nothing more attractive to me then a clean, well groomed. well mannered, and humble female. So unlike the flaunty "look at me" type of female that is so prevalent in this world today. It is true of today where the scripture says that people will be lovers of themselves. I have become wise to the ways of a worldly female and will not cave into their wicked ways. A strong wise man will guard his heart from the cunningness of a women that attracts with desires of the flesh, especially those that are attractive in appearance. A kind man will attract those like minded, so a good man will find a good women.
Estephan
have you ever heard of anonymous?.
anonymous is an amorphos underground collective of internet activists - interactivists.
many of their activities are illegal, or at least reside in the grey area of legality.
I am not advocating an attack of this nature on the Watchtower. I am wondering when it might happen.
You are anonymous you are parading around as a monkey, cute one I might add lol......what are you thinking is going to happen to the W.T.S.? They are not the "true religion" you know. They in fact are not the faithful and discreet slave as they claim. What do you think is happening in the world today? Would you like to know? I will tell you all you need to know based upon what I am allowed by GOD to know......
I am Estephan, not a hidden anomynous person, I am the faithful and discreet slave as you have learned about in the W.T.S. Do you believe me? I can prove it you know How you might ask, well for one based upon what I teach I can prove it......there are other things as well just ask.
Same Guy, Different Photo
E....
12 jesus entered the temple area.
he began chasing out all those who were buying and selling there.
he turned over the tables of the people who were exchanging money.
Wow, Estephan is here. I didn't even notice til now. The whole crazy gang is here again. Am I missing anyone?
Hi Mrs Jones :) I am here to announce the end of the world are you with me?
Estephan
12 jesus entered the temple area.
he began chasing out all those who were buying and selling there.
he turned over the tables of the people who were exchanging money.
And he says to me: “The waters that you saw, where the harlot is sitting, mean peoples and crowds and nations and tongues. And the ten horns that you saw, and the wild beast, these will hate the harlot and will make her devastated and naked, and will eat up her fleshy parts and will completely burn her with fire. For God put [it] into their hearts to carry out his thought, even to carry out [their] one thought by giving their kingdom to the wild beast, until the words of God will have been accomplished. And the woman whom you saw means the great city that has a kingdom over the kings of the earth. Revelation 17:15-18
The natons turning against false religion is a "false teaching" created by the W.T.S.
Look in the headlines and tell me which religion is being tormented by the nations if not the "muslims", or the nation of Islam. Is this not taking place as we speak? What further more to you anticipate to occur?
Estephan
12 jesus entered the temple area.
he began chasing out all those who were buying and selling there.
he turned over the tables of the people who were exchanging money.
This has been the life of "the slave" for the past number of years:
A master puts one of his servants in charge of his other servants
The servant's job is to give them the food they are to receive at the right time.
The master wants a faithful and wise manager for this
It will be good for the servant if the master finds him doing his job when the master returns
What I'm about to tell you is true.
The master will put that servant in charge of everything he owns.
My master is taking a long time to come back
He begins to beat the other servants.
He feeds himself.
He drinks until he gets drunk
The master of that servant will come back on a day the servant doesn't expect him.
He will return at an hour the servant doesn't know.
Then the master will cut him to pieces.
He will send him to the place where unbelievers go.
That servant will be beaten with many blows.
No one upon the earth has lived the life of "the slave".......
Estephan
12 jesus entered the temple area.
he began chasing out all those who were buying and selling there.
he turned over the tables of the people who were exchanging money.
Taxing religion would be nothing but a benefit. Worship to god should be free. Yes, we should meet with like minded individuals to worship together. But in our modern age, money is stressed more than real worship. If I had to meet in a field with a few other Christians, Christ would be present. It's not the place or "name" of the religion. It's that we gather to worship our Lord Jesus Christ.
What you say is true, it should be "free"........
I don't know what that last sentence meant, Este, but I understand fully the monitary needs of religion. But religion tends to over use it's funds. It over pays its pastors. It creates lavish churches where a single room could be adequate. It pays off opposers so that bad light does not shine on it.
Matthew:
45 "Suppose a master puts one of his servants in charge of the other servants in his house. The servant's job is to give them their food at the right time. The master wants a faithful and wise servant for this. 46 It will be good for the servant if the master finds him doing his job when the master returns. 47 What I'm about to tell you is true. The master will put that servant in charge of everything he owns.
48 "But suppose that servant is evil. Suppose he says to himself, 'My master is staying away a long time.' 49 Suppose he begins to beat the other servants. And suppose he eats and drinks with those who drink too much. 50 The master of that servant will come back on a day the servant doesn't expect him. He will return at an hour the servant does not know. 51 Then the master will cut him to pieces. He will send him to the place where pretenders go. There people will sob and grind their teeth.
Luke:
42 The Lord answered, "Suppose a master puts one of his servants in charge of his other servants. The servant's job is to give them the food they are to receive at the right time. The master wants a faithful and wise manager for this. 43 It will be good for the servant if the master finds him doing his job when the master returns. 44 What I'm about to tell you is true. The master will put that servant in charge of everything he owns.
45 "But suppose the servant says to himself, 'My master is taking a long time to come back.' Suppose he begins to beat the other servants. Suppose he feeds himself. And suppose he drinks until he gets drunk. 46 The master of that servant will come back on a day the servant doesn't expect him. He will return at an hour the servant doesn't know. Then the master will cut him to pieces. He will send him to the place where unbelievers go.
47 "Suppose a servant knows his master's wishes. But he doesn't get ready. And he doesn't do what his master wants. That servant will be beaten with many blows.
48 "But suppose the servant does not know his master's wishes. And suppose he does things for which he should be punished. He will be beaten with only a few blows.
Who Really Is The Faith Slave?
how many years from my last post, what will the next date bring?.
estephan leuese.
Hello Estephan! It's been a while.
Hello, yes it has and it's been a trialsome period of time for the slave.......thank you for the greeting.
