The peer pressure especially on teenagers could propably have a live long emotional effect.
Frenchy Good food for thought
This is a lot of pressure. They want to be part of 'the crowd'. They are already denied this at school and now they are being excluded in the congregation by the other youths who feel that they may squal to their father if they see something not quite 'kosher'! Sometimes that is a little too much
Isn't it pretty usual that all the elders children are active and need to be good examples in the cong otherwise the elder has to step down.
I have seen this happen to an Elder who had 7 daughters. Poor man
On the other side of the coin I have seen a elder a target of gossip by members of the cong because he didn't have children plus a new wife who considerably younger than him.
Edited by - Maxee on 18 June 2000 9:53:23