Tigerlove
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Why continue to suffer??
by Tigerlove ini occasionally come on this website because i have my eyes on a particular user.
because of that, i end up reading a lot of people's post.
although very interesting and hurt breaking, a lot of them are very strange.
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Why continue to suffer??
by Tigerlove ini occasionally come on this website because i have my eyes on a particular user.
because of that, i end up reading a lot of people's post.
although very interesting and hurt breaking, a lot of them are very strange.
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Tigerlove
Guys, I'm only stalking one person. I know person in real life. We found him on her about 5 months ago. He's been doing a lot of discrete things on here. Some that I wish I didn't know. -
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Why continue to suffer??
by Tigerlove ini occasionally come on this website because i have my eyes on a particular user.
because of that, i end up reading a lot of people's post.
although very interesting and hurt breaking, a lot of them are very strange.
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Hello everyone. I occasionally come on this website because I have my eyes on a particular user. Because of that, I end up reading a lot of people's post. Although very interesting and hurt breaking, a lot of them are very strange. Strange as in, why do you even put up with this. Every time I come on this website, I always find myself reading about married men who are living a very painful life. After reading those kind of stories, I always ask myself, "why stay in an unhappy marriage?" To me, it seem pointless to waste your life with someone who doesn't appreciate you. Other times, I think this people most really enjoy being miserable because they complain about their situation for years but still put up with it. I really don't understand why anyone would let an individual disrespect them after all they have done for them. All of them claim to love their wives or husbands, but they insult them. To me, that is hypocrisy. If you love someone, but they make you feel like less of a person, why stay with them and disrespect them behind their back? That is why of the many reasons I stopped reading posts on this site. Stories like that made me very angry. That is one thing I've never agreed with. As long as you are still married to each other, you shouldn't be complaining about how they treat you unless you are willing to leave. If not, you shouldn't be bashing them. I've not only experienced it on here, but I've also experienced it in person. I once met up with my boyfriend's father(first time meeting the man). All he did for 30 minutes was bash his wife, their jw friends and the whole organization. Then later said he was planning on moving to a new town with her of course and buying a new house. I was left speechless. That is just my opinion and what I have noticed among elder couples who are still part of JW "unwillingly. -
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Tigerlove
Ahh why do I feel bad for laughing these jokes
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Having courage
by Tigerlove ina couple of days ago, i told the girl i study with that i didn't want to be part of the study anymore.
this is the second time i've hold her this but the first time, i didn't make it clear.
when i told her the first time, she stop coming for a week or two then she randomly showed up.
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Tigerlove
A couple of days ago, I told the girl I study with that I didn't want to be part of the study anymore. This is the second time I've hold her this but the first time, I didn't make it clear. When I told her the first time, she stop coming for a week or two then she randomly showed up. It's easy to get rid of her when my mom is not home but my mom was home that day so she invited her in and offered her something to drink. I decided to stay in the room until she left. At least, that's what I was planning to do but then my mom called me to come say hi. It was super awkward but I was smiling like I missed her so much. It's like you can't get rid of them. So last week, I told her again that I didn't want to be part of it and I don't need her to talk me about reconsidering it because the whole thing didn't make sense. Weirdly she was okay with it. I mean, at this point, I honestly didn't care if she was. Although I don't do the study with her anymore, my sister does so I have to her every weekend. Which is super awkward because she always brings her mom whenever I tell her that I can't or don't want to do the study any more. To make it even more awkward, her brother studies with my brother and her dad studies with my stepdad. The weird part is, we never agreed with what they had to say but we still kept studying, now we're in deepm at least they are because I got the courage to tell them that I'm done. It's only been a week, let's see how long this last. -
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Advice
by Tigerlove inhello, new member here.
i have a question that has been bugging me for a couple of months now.
so i have been dating this guy(a witness ) for over a year now.
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Advice
by Tigerlove inhello, new member here.
i have a question that has been bugging me for a couple of months now.
so i have been dating this guy(a witness ) for over a year now.
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When I we first started started talking, he didn't tell me that he has been in the religion for ever since he was born. But I honestly didn't think it would be such a big deal. When I asked if I could meet his parents, he said I could meet his dad but not his mom and when I asked why, he said because she will never accept you no matter what. It doesn't even matter if you're responsible, well educated, polite, even if you're "studying" with the witness, she will not approve it. She will stop talking to me, she will blame my dad for all of this. I didn't know what to say so I said it would be an honor if I met your dad. He are working on that but his dad knows who I am and what kind of relationship we have. It's a very weird situation. ... -
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Advice
by Tigerlove inhello, new member here.
i have a question that has been bugging me for a couple of months now.
so i have been dating this guy(a witness ) for over a year now.
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Hello, new member here. I have a question that has been bugging me for a couple of months now. So I have been dating this guy(a witness ) for over a year now. When we started dating, I asked him what religion he was and he told that his mother take them to a jehovah-witness church. I was excited because I've been studying with for a while now so I thought it was going to be great. As the months went by, I realized that the religion was nothing I thought. When I started asking him questions about the religion, he didn't say much; he always tried changing subjecta but I never understood why. So one day when I came back from school, he was in tear and I asked what was wrong and he said his mom wanted him to do the service. I wasn't sure what to say so I tried comforting him. That day, he told me so much about that religion that left me shock, I didn't know what to say or do; all I could say is everything will be alright. So as the month went by, I asked if I could meet his parents and he said maybe. That made me very upset because he's met my parents several times and I was wondering why he wouldn't allow me to meet his parents. So I decided to ask him and he explained to me why it would be impossible for me to meet his parents because they will not approve of me, especially his mother. I was very disappointed because I never thought someone will reject me because I didn't believe in the same thing as them. So I asked him what if I got serious about the religion because at the time, I was just studying with them because my mom said I need the hobby. But he still said that wouldn't do it. Months went by, I forgot about that but I still decided to study more about the religion so I can have a better understanding. But I've reach the point where nothing makes sense to me any more, my questions never gets answer. I've even sat down and wondered where this relationship is going. Right now he lives on his own but his father owns the place so he doesn't want to do anything to make his mother upset because he doesn't want to get kicked out of where he lives. I've even asked him if he can at least let his mother know I exist but he's too scared of all the questions she will have for him. Am at a point where everything is just getting me mad, and I just feeling like I got myself into something I can't get out. People have warned me about getting involve with someone from that religion but I wouldn't help it. But now I really don't know what to do or sometimes say. I would love for some one to advice me on something I could consider doing or just advice me on how to handle the situation.
