Je.suis.oisif

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  Hello everyone

  by Lancashirelass in

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  i just wanted to add my name to the many number of people who have awakened from the cult.

  i have been lurking for probably 2 years now.

  and i'm quite certain there are many more lurking and reading just like me.. i have to be honest and say that i most likely will not be contributing much to the discussion board.

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  Je.suis.oisif

  Hi LL & welcome.

  From one Lancashire fader to another. I agree 3rd generation is difficult.
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  RIP Leonard Cohen the World is a little more Grey

  by Slidin Fast in

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  he was a unique voice, i loved him.

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  maybe leonard bowed out because donald got in.

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  Je.suis.oisif

  I felt sick when I heard it in the early hours UK time.

  I discovered Leonard Cohen late in life, but by golly, I was mesmerised by the words & melodies he produced.

  "Dance me to the end of time...."

  RIP. #sad
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  Were Conventions, Asemblies and the Memorials boring to you?

  by HereIgo in

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  2. experiences

  conventions always just seemed like more of a vacation to me than anything else, especially if you had to travel out of town for it, but definitely were exhausting especially toward the end of each day.

  for some reason i didn't mind the special and circuit assemblies too much, probably because they seemed like more of a social event than anything else and only 1-2 days.

  the memorial always was kind of boring to me.

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  Je.suis.oisif

  Cheers mate. Thanks for the clarification, it has helped.
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  Were Conventions, Asemblies and the Memorials boring to you?

  by HereIgo in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  conventions always just seemed like more of a vacation to me than anything else, especially if you had to travel out of town for it, but definitely were exhausting especially toward the end of each day.

  for some reason i didn't mind the special and circuit assemblies too much, probably because they seemed like more of a social event than anything else and only 1-2 days.

  the memorial always was kind of boring to me.

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  Je.suis.oisif

  Punk, I agree with your last statement. This is exactly how I feel. I'm swaying ATM between trying to fill an enormous emptiness or hoping I develope a terminal illness. I'm too much of a coward to take my own life.

  I'm pathetic.
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  Were Conventions, Asemblies and the Memorials boring to you?

  by HereIgo in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  conventions always just seemed like more of a vacation to me than anything else, especially if you had to travel out of town for it, but definitely were exhausting especially toward the end of each day.

  for some reason i didn't mind the special and circuit assemblies too much, probably because they seemed like more of a social event than anything else and only 1-2 days.

  the memorial always was kind of boring to me.

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  Je.suis.oisif

  In my 32yrs ( I add this time period to take you to the far realms of boredom) as a jw who's partner was never interested. I came to dread these assemblies/memorials etc. I'd concluded that Jehovah was withdrawing holy spirit from me! What other conclusion could I rationalise under the lonely circumstances?

  What finally irked me into questioning this cult was the following situation:-

  Two summer conventions ago in Liverpool there was a family of 6 a few rows down from me. 4 kids/ 2 parents.

  Day 1 nothing out of the ordinary. Presentable by convention standards. Too much what I call junk food passed to the kids. But hey, none of my beeswax right?

  Day2, family had same clothes on. Same food etc.

  Day 3, same again, clothes/food etc.

  On the stage was the bethel speaker. He was ranting on about jetting around the world sourcing paper for the printing presses. He even boasted several times about travelling 1st class??? I was incensed. He's guilting us to donate more. Curtail wordly pursuits etc. Reach out. He finished with if you do reach out you'll travel the world at Jehovahs expense. WTAF was this? Here was a poor loyal family, feeling guilty and possibly inferior to quite a few there, & he's droning on about international travel skirting the obvious that it was our, our donations that funded his smug attitude from that stage.

  I never went to another meeting. The last convention left me cold. Sorry for the rant. There's a lot of crap surfacing at the moment. Please don't flame me for highjacking the topic.
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  My Ex Wife Admitted She Doesnt Believe It's The Truth

  by pale.emperor in

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  2. experiences

  my ex-wife actually opened up to me today over the phone.

  she was quite anxious and, i could sense, i little upset.

  for those that dont know my situation im separated from my wife.

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  Je.suis.oisif

  Pale, stand back & protect yourself first. I'm not saying don't support, that would be awful, but some people just suck & suck & suck until there's nothing left of who you were.

  This can be true of non-jw's, but IMHO jw's are masters at it because their scope for self-improvement lies in a very narrow frame-work. Plus many have closed minds to wordly self-improvement. Many of us are people pleasers and push aside self-preservation to ease anothers suffering. Then we realise to our detriment we're in over our heads.

  The fact that you have a Gf & didn't drop her with suggestions to get back with your ex speaks volumes.

  Tread carefully & take care of yourself.
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  BBC Radio Four Comedy Centering Around Leaving the Witnesses.

  by gonzobear in

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  i heard this on the radio last week and thought it was really powerful, amazingly radio four referred to the witnesses as a religious cult, which i thought was progress.

  it's a strangely tough listen, i'm sure many of you have been through similar, i know i was, and to hear it presented as comedy seems to add an extra punch.

  it's great to see true life stories gaining some media traction.

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  Marvellous. Just the tonic I needed. I've been having some crazy cultish dreams recently. I've put myself in their "back room" Haven't l?

  Thankyou. Hilariously sharp.
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  Feeling very lonely

  by BlackWolf in

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  2. friends

  the past few months i've been feeling really depressed and kind of hopeless.

  the few people that actually were a little bit friendly to me at the hall recently moved away, and i'm feeling like more of an outcast than i already was.

  every meeting i just stand by myself by the wall and nobody cares, i feel really lonely and unloved.

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  Je.suis.oisif

  Hey Blackwolf. Read your OP. It sounds as if the text about being at tge KH could have been mine.

  I've been faded now for 17mnths. Dont5miss any of it. My situation is different from you in that I'm not dependent on parents. I don't want to patronise you, sufficient to say I remember what it was like to live in a strict non-jw household.

  People can't trace internet history via a router. Your dad is just planting seeds to further emasculate you. It's a tried & tested weapon. They need your device. If you clear your history, then not possible, unless experts take it in. The only thing he can do is monitor you live. He'd have to sit there & watch numbers whizzing past him. Then he'd have to know what they all mean. Unless I've missed parental snooping technology advances. In which case, I stand corrected.

  Please please just hang fire. Time does pass slowly when your young. Keep visiting or posting. We're routing for you buddy.
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  Things you'd never read in the Bible

  by Tahoe in

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  mock the week is a british improvised, satirical celebrity panel show, like whose line is it anyway?

  performers deliver answers on unexpected subjects on the spur of the moment.

  i found it quite funny and thought i would pass it along.

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  Je.suis.oisif

  Hey Tahoe. Cool. Thanks. I love this show.
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  Question about an elder and if I am crazy

  by life is to short in

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  2. child-abuse

  ok so i have a question.

  i was a very, very true believer until i saw the child molesters in my hall and how that whole thing was handled.. my husband is older than i am and had been an elder for 12 when we married.

  so fast forward to 06, we are in a hall where i thought all the elders were ok at the worst and great at the best.

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  Je.suis.oisif

  Sorry Iown Mylife. My sausage fingers activated the dislike whilst trying to press like.