Hi the Rebel,
There are many viewpoints here. I would say as many as there are eyebrows!
I picked eyebrows (instead of the usual belly buttons) because I think each of us at some point in this journey reached a point where we held more than one opinion.
It is human nature to rush in to a nice tight well structured view point. It is because we feel more secure then.
But free falling is not all bad so dont rush, the worst is over, the journey has begun.