Magog, let's get something straight, I have not been a witness since 1986 in my heard, physically out in 1988, I hardly call 15 or so years a newby. YOU don't know me, you don't know what was going on at that time, you don't know what I've lived through, and I only chose to share some of it on the silentlambs site. So if you choose to continue your judgemental BS, along with some of the other people on this board, so be it. I offered a leaf of peace, and I still get attacked. So get off your self-rightious high horse, and try to remember, there are actually humans behind these nicks. Maybe I was wrong, but so was he. I happened to have a kid, I enjoy kids, and his comment, was as worse as mine. Because what he said actually hurt me, because of what I'm going through.