Greetings 'SKally,'
You asked, "If I may ask, why were you disfellowshipped?"
I had, from the very start of my own crisis of faith and conscience in 1998, been fairly forthcoming with the various elders about my concerns and disagreements with certain teachings and claims being made by the Society. But it wasn't until they became aware of my business ties with Robert King and the e-watchman site that the local elders began to take serious interest in me. At first, it was more about my affiliation with the e-watchman site, and then, finally, this past May or so, they brought out all of my published writings and views that I have expressed online and used that as justification to disfellowship me on grounds of apostasy--even though they had been aware of those views for the past 7 years. They knew they had no legal grounds to disfellowship me because of my working relationship with Robert, so they resorted to the things that I had written. One elder was particular upset over my article on the Watchtower Society's use of propaganda, saying that only politicians use propaganda.
In any event, at the end of our two-hour session at the Holt Congregation kingdom hall in the meeting room, they asked if it would be okay that I step outside the room while they discuss the matter amongst themselves, to which I said, "Well, if you really need to take that long..."
After about five minutes or so, I was invited back in, and they told me they felt they had no other option except to disfellowship me (for apostasy). I assured them that it was alright and that I understood why they felt it necessary to do so (which I do), and I thanked them for their time.
All-in-all, I have no bitterness towards them, and they were very appropriate towards me, except for the one elder who kept trying to provoke me into an argument. I think it was a necessary part of my own personal spiritual walk to be rejected like that by the last remaining organized religion that I thought at one time might be my last stop towards Jehovah. I've since learned that the answer (at least for me) is not going to be found within the fences of organized religion, even though I do see its benefits for most Christians.
And, like I told the elders on several occasions, Robert is right on some things, wrong on others--but that's no different than the Watchtower being right on some things, and wrong on others--at least in my perception in accordance with the Bible. That I agree with him on some things does not make me his follower any more than the fact that I disagree with him on some things constitutes my being his enemy. The fact is that he and I happen to have very different views (as is obvious to anyone who has ready my articles or read my posts at Pathways Online) when it comes to the Bible.
Hope this helps.
Submitted for your perusal,
Timothy Kline