Just received this response to my abuser's letter (A letter from my molester link at www.fatherstouch.com). Thought I'd share with you.... Donald, I just went to the link to the letter. My heart and thoughts and prayers go out to you. That you can have a clear view of the injustice done you speaks well for how much of your cognitant self survived. I am so proud of the strength and determination and just plain hope you have shown just by making this thread. I feel good things about you. May the healing continue and the pride you fully deserve to indulge continue to grow until it erases the pain inflicted upon you. It would be good to see those episodes rendered to mere factual memory and no longer dominating a place in your feeling heart. I sense you are about there. I am thankful that there of those of you who have suffered these injustices that have the where--with-all and intuitiveness to understand that you are needed. It must be incredibly difficult to hold yourself open to judgement, but yet, you seem to intrinsically know you must. There are so many afraid to, that need to hear from you. You have done a great service and I am sure it is at no small cost. Thank you, brave one. I support you and may the knowledge of my support somehow give you comfort. For I am not alone, many read and fewer write, I am impressed and moved and I pray the best for you always. May the healing continue. B. A.
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READ MY MOLESTER'S LETTER NOW!
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to read my father's (my abuser) letter:.
click on link: a letter from my molester .
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READ MY MOLESTER'S LETTER NOW!
by morrisamb in.
to read my father's (my abuser) letter:.
click on link: a letter from my molester .
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morrisamb
Thank you all for your support and kind words. I'm sure my abuser's letter has confused some people on this site as he speaks against Jehovah's Witnesses, but his game is more about rationalizing his molestation of children than concern for converting Witnesses. What's the chances of a serial peodophile telling the truth? Readers of his letter should know that I have not had any personal contact with my abuser since 1976 when I was 15. Yet he writes of my family's present life as though he is an insider. The truth is: I had more sex as a child starting at four years of age (ending when I left at 15) than I have ever had as an adult. My mother has only had sex with one man, (sometimes being raped by him), her entire life and it is my molester father. That this molester fathered four more children and fled with them and his fifth wife to the Phillipines as the Children's Aid Society were looking for him in Canada. My younger brother WAS molested by this man. My sister and older brother never forgave him and after he spoke with Marina at a restaurant (which he eludes to in his letter) he called her up asking her for sexual favours. My molester assumes that readers of his letter would take his word at face value, just as he did during the trial. Unfortunately many people will.
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READ MY MOLESTER'S LETTER NOW!
by morrisamb in.
to read my father's (my abuser) letter:.
click on link: a letter from my molester .
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morrisamb
To read my father's (my abuser) letter:
click on link: A letter from my molester
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My molester responds to my book, Father's Touch...
by morrisamb inmy molester sent an 8+ page letter to the krant van westvlaanderen in belgium in response to their extensive coverage of my book (that original coverage can be seen by scanning down the page at: http://www.fatherstouch.com/about.htm).
the editor has refused to publish even an edited version of it [if you read it, you will understand why].
my molester asked that it be sent to me!
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morrisamb
Just a quick note: I finished transcribing the letter: almost 4000 words (after editing, before 5500 approximately).
my web host in texas said he would post it this evening at this link on my website:
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My molester responds to my book, Father's Touch...
by morrisamb inmy molester sent an 8+ page letter to the krant van westvlaanderen in belgium in response to their extensive coverage of my book (that original coverage can be seen by scanning down the page at: http://www.fatherstouch.com/about.htm).
the editor has refused to publish even an edited version of it [if you read it, you will understand why].
my molester asked that it be sent to me!
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morrisamb
Thanks Pat. Of course, molesters will DO ANYTHING to transfer responsibility. No conscience. They live in their own little universe.
My father has represented himself as God's spokesperson since the late 50's (through each religious transformation). Even people who have known he molested have believed he was God's messenger! To the point of expressing sympathy for him to us.
Unfortunately it will only take my true story to educate these people. These people have truly hurt my family by cheapening our experience and re-abusing us by making us feel guilty for dislosing the abuse. I am sure that is something that many victims can relate to. Sad, isn't it?
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My molester responds to my book, Father's Touch...
by morrisamb inmy molester sent an 8+ page letter to the krant van westvlaanderen in belgium in response to their extensive coverage of my book (that original coverage can be seen by scanning down the page at: http://www.fatherstouch.com/about.htm).
the editor has refused to publish even an edited version of it [if you read it, you will understand why].
my molester asked that it be sent to me!
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morrisamb
Thanks Dutchie and ash.
Monster is right. You wouldn't believe how much so -- that is, until you've read his letter and compare it to my book!
You are also right that his attack of my sexuality is a calculated move to deflect his own culpablity. The trouble is, we know how many people listen to that schpeel, don't we!
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My molester responds to my book, Father's Touch...
by morrisamb inmy molester sent an 8+ page letter to the krant van westvlaanderen in belgium in response to their extensive coverage of my book (that original coverage can be seen by scanning down the page at: http://www.fatherstouch.com/about.htm).
the editor has refused to publish even an edited version of it [if you read it, you will understand why].
my molester asked that it be sent to me!
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morrisamb
Thanks for your kind words, Nikita!
I'm still transcribing the letter. The link will be:
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My molester responds to my book, Father's Touch...
by morrisamb inmy molester sent an 8+ page letter to the krant van westvlaanderen in belgium in response to their extensive coverage of my book (that original coverage can be seen by scanning down the page at: http://www.fatherstouch.com/about.htm).
the editor has refused to publish even an edited version of it [if you read it, you will understand why].
my molester asked that it be sent to me!
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morrisamb
Thanks for the hugs! My father has been involved with 4 religions that I know of: Catholic, Jehovah's Witnesses, Born-Again Christian, Salvation Army, and back to Born-Again Christian again. I think he's been born-again 4 times at last count!!!
At the time my siblings and I were sexually abused, he was a Jehovah's Witness. But he has been abusive throughout all phases of his denominations. Just ask his ex-wives--he's on his 5th at the moment! The world is so naive as to these kind of men..His "charisma" --yikes, dare I call it that-- continues to fool so many people.
Like I said it's going to take me a bit to type his letter up and edit it (there's tons of scriptures, You Know), and have it then posted... www.fatherstouch.com
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My molester responds to my book, Father's Touch...
by morrisamb inmy molester sent an 8+ page letter to the krant van westvlaanderen in belgium in response to their extensive coverage of my book (that original coverage can be seen by scanning down the page at: http://www.fatherstouch.com/about.htm).
the editor has refused to publish even an edited version of it [if you read it, you will understand why].
my molester asked that it be sent to me!
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morrisamb
Thanks, Hawkaw.
Here's just a sample from the letter....
AN OPEN LETTER TO THE "KRANT VAN WEST-VLAANEREN"
In reply to the article of Friday the 17th of May 2002 By Donald D'Haene of Canada, who takes great delight in vilifying his father some 28 years after the fact....
let me make it perfectly clear that my youngest son Erik was never part of my past misdoings! To now state that he was, is a monstrous lie concocted between them, to make it appear worse than it was. As a matter of fact, it was Jeannette his mother who harmed him terribly, by rejecting him...This is something you will not hear about or read about in Donald's book.....
Donald is a Homosexual, and as such, he has committed sodomy with a multitude of men, more than you could number....
My comments on Tante [Aunt] Blanche saying, "Donald is een Sympathieke jongen," [Donald is a sympathetic young man] is very flattering to the ego of Donald, but the fact remains, that what Donald condemned of his father (and rightly so), he is actively practicing as an adult. Again, I repeat: If you live in glass houses, don't throw stones! I have been cleansed from these immoral practices of the past (Thank God), and I would be the first person to condemn it, and Donald continues to practice sexual deviation, calling it, Happiness and contentment. His mother too is tolerating his sexual deviation, and lives under the same roof with sodomites....
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Well, there you have it -- just a glimpse into the mind of a molester.
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Get aload of this..
by Xandria inthis is crazy.. just go under each topic on this sight and read.
it speaks on each topic we have touched on in this forum and bascially gives thier "answer" and thoughts as silly as some are.
xandria
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thank you Xandria for posting this. The fact they would use the scripture below I find very insensitive. If an Elder's daughter or wife had just been raped, would he want to hear this eg. thrown at him? Again, it's this separate from the world business. Let the rapist go and attack someone else?
When the Samaritan came along, his heart went out to the wounded man. What did he do? Did he insist on hearing every last detail about the beating? Or did the Samaritan get a description of the robbers and immediately chase after them? No. The man was hurt! So the Samaritan gently dressed his wounds and lovingly carried him to the safety of a nearby inn where he could recover.Luke 10:30-37.