well if you want to think you have proved 2 of my points wrong then that is up to you. In fact I agree with both you and qcmbr - what I don't agree with you on is that concord is possible whilst dissecting and discarding ideas.
edit: to comment on the theme of your thread Palm - I think what we can aim for is to understand each other as far as possible. Also like tec I am against three or four people piling up on one individual and continuing to do this repeatedly - this is my definition of bullying. If we avoid that and try our best to understand the other person's pov then we at least have a "hearty" discussion.