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  I hate the GB ...

  by Dudu in

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  2. beliefs

  it is strong word but i do hate them ... for the first time in my life i have this feeling so strong.

  today i was talking to my mom and she went on about how leaving the wt was the worst decision on ive ever made and how embarrased and hurt she was about my behavior (not going to meetings) i am loosing my relationship with my mom and the more i grow apart from the jw the more i will loose her , it is just sad .....

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  a big hug ndrew,,, i will try to do that, it is hard but ill try ... mom loves to manipulate and when she can make you do what she wants you to ... Besides, she thinks my boyfriend is to blame about my change , she cant stand him ... She wants me to choose
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  I hate the GB ...

  by Dudu in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  it is strong word but i do hate them ... for the first time in my life i have this feeling so strong.

  today i was talking to my mom and she went on about how leaving the wt was the worst decision on ive ever made and how embarrased and hurt she was about my behavior (not going to meetings) i am loosing my relationship with my mom and the more i grow apart from the jw the more i will loose her , it is just sad .....

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  It is strong word but I do hate them ... for the first time in my life i have this feeling so strong. Today I was talking to my mom and she went on about how leaving the WT was the worst decision on ive ever made and how embarrased and hurt she was about my behavior (not going to meetings) I am loosing my relationship with my mom and the more I grow apart from the JW the more I will loose her , It is just sad ....
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  Do you have to deal with a psychopathic person?

  by moshe in

  1. social
  2. family

  def: psychopathy (/sa?

  'k?p?i/[1][2]) is a mental disorder characterized primarily by a lack of empathy and remorse, shallow emotions, egocentricity, and deceptiveness.

  psychopaths are highly prone to antisocial behavior and abusive treatment of others, and are very disproportionately responsible for violent crime.

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  Dudu

  my best friend (a JW) had a JW boyfriend who after 10 months of relationship asked her to marry him ... then after a month he said he wanted to be single. That was ok until we found out he did that with few sister and they kept silence because they felt so embarrased, we counted at least 8 sisters and i even got in touch with one of them personally (a great human being) after all was discovered and we talked to the elders they basically said that wasnt their business :S lol He is a total jerk but i think he also has a disorder .....
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  If I only had known ...

  by Dudu in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  since i started having sex , i changed my doctor, this new one prescribed me control pills for extra safety ... well, it turns out i have my hormones unbalanced and thats why i had such a terribles, painfuls periods, i had to loose days at work, lots of pain killers and sometimes even er .... uuughhhh i went to so many doctors and nobody knew what was wrong, they just kept saying,, is normal to have pain during the period....

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  Hi guys! thank you all for your comments ... @claudia thanks for the advise, I had all the tests including those for ovaries to find endometriosis and everything is fine, that was why doctors kept telling me it was normal to have pain coz all the tests i went through went right.

  @pp She's getting off to a really bad start in her dating life and continuing to have sex with men after a few months of knowing them will only make things much worse. thanks for your concern, but really isnt neccessary :) Besides, darling you dont know me AT ALL only few threads about small details give you the right to judge a relationship/personality? uuffff darling you are a way bit judgemental.

  @mrsjones thanks for your words and advise, as usual ....
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  If I only had known ...

  by Dudu in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  since i started having sex , i changed my doctor, this new one prescribed me control pills for extra safety ... well, it turns out i have my hormones unbalanced and thats why i had such a terribles, painfuls periods, i had to loose days at work, lots of pain killers and sometimes even er .... uuughhhh i went to so many doctors and nobody knew what was wrong, they just kept saying,, is normal to have pain during the period....

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  Dudu

  since I started having sex , I changed my doctor, this new one prescribed me control pills for extra safety ... well, it turns out I have my hormones unbalanced and thats why I had such a terribles, painfuls periods, I had to loose days at work, lots of pain killers and sometimes even ER .... uuughhhh I went to so many doctors and nobody knew what was wrong, they just kept saying,, is normal to have pain during the period...
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  My life so far ......

  by Dudu in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

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  well, i moved to a new apartment , and my business is growing :) mom is taking things a lil bit better .... life with its ups and downs is way better than the bubble i was living in :)
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  Should i break up???

  by Dudu in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.

  here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.

  we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?

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  well, he called me while i was out having dinner with friends, to tell me that one of his friends is going to travel and thats why he is going to the beach with them instead of being with me, he said he is sorry he didnt explain me this when he called me at noon but he was in a lunch break so he didnt have much time to explain , funny thing is i didnt ask for an explanation instead i got mad and angry at him not knowing the reasons ..... i think for today im gonna enjoy the rest of the night with a movie.... i know ive been childlish
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  Should i break up???

  by Dudu in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.

  here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.

  we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?

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  Dudu

  thank you all for the advises ... i will go out tonite with some friends :)
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  Should i break up???

  by Dudu in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.

  here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.

  we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?

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  @NC I do have a problem with that passive-aggresive... i expect him to want to be with me rather than going out with his friends at least one day for me and one day for his friends.... but that is something i assume he should know, or he should feel like to do.... nc can we talk pm??
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  Should i break up???

  by Dudu in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.

  here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.

  we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?

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  i need a hug mrsjones .........