jw religion is just like any power structure, but because it has the label "truth" behind it...when people want to do all kinds of sick shit, it's much easier to get away with it. it's like that post i read a few days ago here. it was an article about some dipshit constantly commenting on his female employee's breasts...and making her do all this borderline sexual stuff to get him off. well he was "the boss" so he could get away with it for a time. what happens when these dipshits are not just the boss, but "the truth". and this man was made an elder directly by "the holy spirit". now you got some real shit on your hands. and they defend these people tooth and nail because they are so convinced god directly appointed these men. so yea there is the crux of the matter. all this nonsense about "truth" "directly appointed by god as elder, ms" whatever, turns an otherwise eccentric harmless bunch, into a cult. because it justifies any behavior, based on these fantastic notions of god's direct hand being involved in their otherwise childish charade.
in contrast. if they just went and said yea ok this guy is ready to work, put him to work give him responsibility. ok good, he's nice to people, does a good job whatever. when someone then says hey this guy is really into some wierd stuff, people will just take a reasonable approach of examining evidence etc. but when you tell people this guy was directly appointed by god, it's a whole other story. and that again, is the actual point where this religion becomes a cult, instead of a harmless charade, which may do some good for society otherwise.
ladylee: i'm very sorry for what they put you through. it sucks when you put your stock in something, believe, do the work, be a good example...and people take advantage of you, scapegoat you, etc. it unfortunately pulls the veil off what this religion really is. just an organization of men/women, the same as USPS...nothing holy to see here. just as if USPS tommorow declared god was in charge of their organization. instead of when you dont receive your package and call to complain, and then collect your insurance on the package...instead they tell you no no no, god is directing the package work, you must be an evil-doer, because god never sends a package to the wrong location. yea now USPS is a cult if they inserted that logic into their organization. it sets the stage for all kinds of crazy shit with that logic.