Newborn, Mickey Mouse, Lisa, I am sorry to hear about your experiences.
I have parents that very seldom come to visit my family. They are both witnesses. I was born in the watchtower, and found out it was not the truth maybe 20 years ago. I thought that the reason they were somewhat cold was my not believing anymore. I now believe it is a personality thing. I think they may come up with excuses why they don't come to visit or call that often. Whether its the watchtower rules or the weather or whatever. I think some people find excuses to ultimately convey there true feelings. I don't intend my comment to mean that this is typically the case with everyone though. Just my personal experience.