Posts by nelly136

in the cong i grew up in, it was so small-minded that if you were single, and seen talking to a member of the opposite sex, you were presumed to be in some sort of relationship with him/her.. sex before marriage is out of the question, with heavy petting also looked down upon.

dating is a serious affair, with all onlookers expecting engagement/marriage to be the outcome.

nelly136

tsk tsk? oi Red carmels tsking at me is that one of them dodgy american
primal mating calls or the sound of your mounting block rocking?
nelly :-)

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Serious Question

by Prisca in

as we all know the society has very strict guidelines regarding conduct between the sexes.

in the cong i grew up in, it was so small-minded that if you were single, and seen talking to a member of the opposite sex, you were presumed to be in some sort of relationship with him/her.. sex before marriage is out of the question, with heavy petting also looked down upon.

dating is a serious affair, with all onlookers expecting engagement/marriage to be the outcome.

nelly136

Yo kismet,
where've you been? you in Oz yet?
and Claudia.... the 'O' word? thats very risque of you,
you'll get RHW and waiting all unneccesary,
nelly

and whatever you do dont say blow job k! ;-)

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Re: May Jesus forgive me..

by Frenchy in

jw
friends

roy, .

your absolution if you have any coming will be from god and not from humans.

your confession needs to be directed toward him and not us.. -seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it-

nelly136

hi thinkers wife,
I cant contact you on the private mail thingummy can you email me please,
nelly

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The New World

by larc in

jw
friends

earlier, i had asked about changes under the thread, "new truth".

your replies were interesting and informative, or should i say it was meat in due season and i found it upbuilding.

i have another question: is the new world view still the same.

nelly136

so if god can wipe every tear from their eye and sadness and pain will be no more for the former things have passed away......(or something like that)
how come he didnt do it properly in the first place?
the ultimate power can take all these imperfect people and make them perfect and procreation wont ever occur to the ones that have been resurrected and of course none of the people who made it through armageddon would ever get the inkling to fancy one of them,
yet to start with there were two totally perfect people and he couldnt stop them scrumping the forbidden fruit.
just wondering
nelly

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Re: May Jesus forgive me..

by Frenchy in

jw
friends

roy, .

your absolution if you have any coming will be from god and not from humans.

your confession needs to be directed toward him and not us.. -seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it-

nelly136

explain please cos I'm a brit and we find you foreigners pretty confusing at the best of times :-)
you say you cant get help from catholics so you thought you'd try
us jws for a bit of understanding?
are you looking for someone whose undertanding or a religion that supports what you feel you cant help yourself from doing?

not everyone here is a jw, if you want a jw site to get the jw understanding you're looking for you could try www.witnessonline.com (it was having a few technical problems but I'm sure it'll be sorted soon)I'm sure if you post your problem over there they will give you a much warmer welcome than the *un christian* one you feel you received here.
the man who played touchy feely with me when i was little was a catholic, I often wondered if he felt better after confessional (I didnt have that luxury )
when I wished you luck in getting help with your problem I actually meant it sincerely, it would be to your advantage as well as any potential victim (and yes I am biased in their favour)should your willpower to overcome your problem weaken
nelly

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Re: May Jesus forgive me..

by Frenchy in

jw
friends

roy, .

your absolution if you have any coming will be from god and not from humans.

your confession needs to be directed toward him and not us.. -seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it-

nelly136

I'm glad youre seeking help, I'll try and be gentle with ya :-)
the problems you mention can be very volatile when it comes to discussion,
personally I've been out of the jdubs for about 16 years and am only
just starting to consider spirituality, sometimes you have to face the demons within before you can start seeking the ever elusive inner peace I guess.
nelly

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Re: May Jesus forgive me..

by Frenchy in

jw
friends

roy, .

your absolution if you have any coming will be from god and not from humans.

your confession needs to be directed toward him and not us.. -seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it-

nelly136

mmmm, just noticed m2u's pic, hot sweat here, oi red lend me yer
mountin block
....I mean ...ummm..nice weather we've been having lately
nelly ;-p

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Re: May Jesus forgive me..

by Frenchy in

jw
friends

roy, .

your absolution if you have any coming will be from god and not from humans.

your confession needs to be directed toward him and not us.. -seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it-

nelly136

I asked if you were married because I was wondering how something like this would affect a relationship,
as for the sarcasm of some of the replies perhaps its because your posts coincide with the closure of witnet, perhaps some feel its a little odd that out of the ordinary posts are coming in when theres all of a sudden quite a few jws with nowhere to go?
unfortunately the humour you will probably have to suffer:-) I've spent years cultivating a horrid humour its my way of coping with life. I make no apologys for coping the only way I know how and beleive me when I say sometimes I laugh and joke but inside....
anyway I wish you both well for getting support with your problems,
nelly