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  H2O Closing !!

  by LeeHiker in

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  posted by rick [rick] on february 02, 2001 at 16:03:02 {llynvmoc0u3m1gkntx/mfmfbt36xyc}:.

  dear friends,.

  i received word from a friend who has spoken with infonex that all shell accounts at cyberpass including h2o's will be terminated this coming wednesday, february 7, 2001. all information on our site will be wiped clean on that date.

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  nelly136

  ok, so who gets to adopt fred :-)
  I think it'll be a shame if it disapears, having boards to suit all moods and tastes keeps everyone happy,
  I like going over there to lurk and read posts even if I dont participate, and I like the varied personalities....ok some more than others, if You Know what I mean ;-)
  what I do find disturbing is these sites being closed down or cancelled at short notice, if its because the board owner is tired of running it fair enough, but if its an attempt to censor thats something else,
  if thats the case it could be h20 one week and this board or tishies next...
  nelly
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  Double Life??

  by Gozz in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm coming out.

  i attend meetings; all of them.

  even handle some talks.

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  nelly136

  so when it boils down to it Gozz youre not actually staying
  in because youre happy to, youre staying in because you have friends and family in there and youre afraid to lose them?

  >>I have the morbid fear of being demonized by friends and family. >>Some of them will just plain trip off! Like they did to my friend >>who got disfellowshipped.

  if it was just you and you didnt have friends and family o lose would you still be one?
  just wondering
  nelly
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  Am I welcome here?

  by WanderingStar in

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  i am currently df'd but seriously considering returning to the meetings with a view to reinstatement.

  i am looking for honest, open minded discussion.

  if i offend you all by being here, please let me know and i wont come back again.. thanks for reading this!

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  mmmmmmm DLJ, as you can see and Red will back me up, I'm a picture of
  virtue and humbleness (modest too!) surely you wouldn't think of even suggesting that I would not be worthy of your attention (flutters eyelashes)
  nelly

  <snicker snort splutter>
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  Am I welcome here?

  by WanderingStar in

  1. jw
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  i am currently df'd but seriously considering returning to the meetings with a view to reinstatement.

  i am looking for honest, open minded discussion.

  if i offend you all by being here, please let me know and i wont come back again.. thanks for reading this!

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  well nice to meet you Df, or can I call you nick sounds more personal,
  yep people have opinions and pretty strong ones sometimes but that happens is to be expected on a db,
  you did come across a bit *none of them are talking to me so I'll slum it with you lot*
  at least you were honest and made no pretense that you'd be here under normal circumstances and I appreciate that,
  so nice to meet you
  thankyou for humouring my morbid curiosity, I hope that you continue to visit, especially after you've been reinstated :-)
  nelly

  exjw dd no intention of going back, but not bothered if you choose to cos youre probably big and ugly enough to look after yourself ;-)
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  Double Life??

  by Gozz in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm coming out.

  i attend meetings; all of them.

  even handle some talks.

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  nelly136

  well its nice to meet you, watch out for the splinters from sitting on the fence though,
  word of warning as you can gather big brother watches over here :-)
  wouldnt use the same name if you sign on to be a member of WOL and hang out with your other friends ;-)
  nelly
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  Am I welcome here?

  by WanderingStar in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am currently df'd but seriously considering returning to the meetings with a view to reinstatement.

  i am looking for honest, open minded discussion.

  if i offend you all by being here, please let me know and i wont come back again.. thanks for reading this!

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  just curious DF, will you be coming back here after youre reinstated, would we be good enough to talk to then?
  not judging just wondering, attack of the morbid curiosities got the better of me,
  nelly
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  How do you feel about smacking at K Hall?

  by Latte in

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  2. family

  personally, it upsets me very much.

  or are there any other parents that found better, alternative ways of getting young children 'trained'?.

  i am not anti -smacking by the way,(except at the kh) but it is always the very last resort.. latte

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  my mum always said to me she'd never hurt her hands on me, and she was right she didnt, she didnt feel a thing using a wooden spoon or hairbrush, although I was often told *this hurts me more than it hurts you*...yeah right
  guess those modest skirt hem lines are not just there to cover your knees.
  I'm not sure whether she was as brutal because of the spare the rod spoil the child thing or whether it just gave her a legitimate excuse to be herself, all I know is when she was beating the living crap out of me in the toilets no one so much as batted an eyelid, and there'd be plenty approving looks and stares on the way back to our seats...another unruly child dealt with
  what I thought was discipline with love as a child would very likely be classed as abuse by *worldly* standards.
  One elder in our cong had quite a large family, if he was on the platform and they played up it would be nothing for him to excuse himself from the platform and go slap them them before returning to the platform as if nothing had happened, more approving looks and sniggers.
  nelly
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  I am a non-witness in love with one. help please

  by jarrod in

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  2. friends

  i am a man who is in love with a witness.

  we have been in a relationship for 3 years full of guilt and fear and now it seems like it may be the end.

  is it possible or is there a way for me to have my own belief and marry a jw?

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  I might be wrong but you may find it quite difficult to contact her now, you have spiritually endangered her (their words) so quite possibly she will be monitored to discourage any further contact, she must choose what she wants to do now,
  I found someone outside the jws, I married him a couple of years later,we may be divorced now ...ok someties I really dont like him much but he helped me get out and thats something I will always be grateful for, I've never regretted getting out, but it wasnt easy, I can understand why some just have to go back, some cannot survive the harsh reality that they are only loved on condition that they follow the party line,
  hope things work out for you, but it depends on how strong willed your girlfriend is.
  nelly
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  I am a non-witness in love with one. help please

  by jarrod in

  1. jw
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  i am a man who is in love with a witness.

  we have been in a relationship for 3 years full of guilt and fear and now it seems like it may be the end.

  is it possible or is there a way for me to have my own belief and marry a jw?

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  nelly136

  let us know how you get on, bit late in the day now, good luck anyways,
  nelly
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  Another New One

  by notperfectyet in

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  i have been reading this site for a couple of months.

  last night i stayed up all night, (not unusual for me though) and read the posts by ......well you know...the new kid on the block...who created so much fury.

  at first i thought she was a fake, and i still do.

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  nelly136

  nice to meet you and hello (also to anyone I havent said hello to yet)
  do you mind if I ask you which country youre from?
  nelly