I post on this site. I don't feel that I hate JW. I work with and have coffee with JW.
I suppose the closest I came to cutting all ties with JW was when I watched the videos of the Royal Commission in Australia.
When I left the JW for theological differences after being raised a JW. I felt concerned at the time that this may cause a split in the family. However I encouraged my wife to continue to attend if that is what she wanted to do. She didn't. (She attended a few times over the first few years.) No elder or elders wife has ever enquired in 20 years as to how she felt about the truth she was raised as JW and baptised Witness for 20 years.