We have to remember that once we're in the dubbies, every moment of every day is pretty well mapped out for us by the WT society.There's no choices. We were told how we had to behave. Witnesses are obsessed by behaviour, even to the extent of how we were to dance, what clothes we could wear, who we could associate with, who we could marry, what we could eat, what entertainment was acceptable, how much time we spent associating, the list goes on and on. Little wonder that when a born-in leaves the JW's, he often goes off the rails. There is no inner sense of morality as all so called morals are those that have been drummed in, no normal gradual maturation has been allowed to take place. Leaving is a hard and painful road, not, IMHO, dissimilar to that of drug addict struggling to kick the habit.
mikronboy
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Who says the Pandemic didn't wake up a lot of people!
by pistolpete inthere are actually tons of these experiences.
i wanted to post this one because it involved all the family of born in jws.. post;.
all my freakn dreams came true.
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Help with 1975 please
by jhine ini answered a question on quora about jw flip flops .
i mentioned, amongst other things , the 1975 debacle.
how witnesses were told that armageddon was coming in the fall of that year.
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mikronboy
You have to hand to people like F Franz of the Watchtower for he was truly a prolific sensationalist with information. It should be realized he was also a key player within the writing department of the Watchtower Corporation .
Whenever I think of Fred Franz, and I heard him speak several times, I'm reminded of a certain Minister of Propaganda. He didn't look too different either..
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Party tunes
by jhine inas usual there's a lot of serious shizzle being discussed on here .
i can only cope with so much serious , so here's something that's really not .
as some of you know l am getting married soon and organising the evening bash .
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IF it quacks like a duck ...? WHAT IS IT?
by Terry ina question: "what does identity mean?
" if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck have feathers like a duck: it is a __?___.
hans christian anderson taught us this lesson in the famous story of "the ugly duckling" (**spoiler alert**) the ugly part of the duckling was misleading to observers who later discover it is a swan.
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mikronboy
Could be a platypus.
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Do You Get Easily Offended By What People Do or Don’t Do?
by minimus indoes using uncle ben’s food products offend you?.
are you offended if you see a flag?
what about a confederate flag?.
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mikronboy
Oh dear. Whenever I host a dinner party I fly the flag of the appropriate country from where the original dish came from. This summer I'm cooking Louisianna Gumbo..
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Where do JWs stand on sex toys?
by mickbobcat ini think we all know that if they are used alone it would be a no no, but what about in a marriage?
are there limits such as vibrators ok but torso with dildo not ok?.
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mikronboy
Fast spin washing machine was the way to go in the 50's.
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Do You Support The Death Penalty ?
by minimus indo you support the death penalty or do you think the worst punishment should be incarceration?.
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mikronboy
No. Show me a country that has the death penalty and I'll show you a country that has a draconian penal system.
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What Song Reminds You The Most of Your JW Experience?
by Sea Breeze inwhat song takes you back there?.
here's mine: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=brb7rupqtsg&ab_channel=danielaaguilar.
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mikronboy
This one: I'd come to the end of my marriage. I'd also realised I didn't believe a word of JW teachings. It was a Sunday - a beautiful Sunday. https://youtu.be/hU4bwT8v_sQ
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U.K. Nurse Vaccinated With Covid Shot Has Covid Weeks After Getting Vac!
by minimus insomeone i know from england is a nurse.
she told me there was an outbreak at the hospital and she got the virus after being vaccinated.
she said she was told it probably would have been much worse for her had she not gotten vaccinated.
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mikronboy
The vaccine is similar to the once in a lifetime pneumonia vaccine. Being 70% effective doesn't mean that 30% of people will still get it. It means that the effects of the disease will, on average, be around 70% less than an unvaccinated person would experience.
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mikronboy
About £350 playing roulette. One of the waitresses caught my eye. That was 48 years ago. We now have 3 grown-up sons and are very happy together. A winner all the way!