We have to remember that once we're in the dubbies, every moment of every day is pretty well mapped out for us by the WT society.There's no choices. We were told how we had to behave. Witnesses are obsessed by behaviour, even to the extent of how we were to dance, what clothes we could wear, who we could associate with, who we could marry, what we could eat, what entertainment was acceptable, how much time we spent associating, the list goes on and on. Little wonder that when a born-in leaves the JW's, he often goes off the rails. There is no inner sense of morality as all so called morals are those that have been drummed in, no normal gradual maturation has been allowed to take place. Leaving is a hard and painful road, not, IMHO, dissimilar to that of drug addict struggling to kick the habit.